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Ladyback1

Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Montana

OK....I'm asking because my lovely Ex-husband is accusing me of allowing our son to miss 144 days of school.

My math is as follows: 37 weeks (approx) x 5 day/wk=185 days of school (give or take a few days).

The child has missed 23 days this year. He has battled ear infections this year. And battled Doctors who didn't want to treat the infections aggressively or at all (after four rounds of amoxicillin *sp* over a 4 month period--FINALLY got a referral to an ENT and a prescription for augmentin *sp* and some steroids to reduce the swelling and irritation! Voila ear infection was gone...kid is 14 so they really didn't and don't want to put tubes in his ears---at least until this next visit and I have to insist they do something because he's since had another one!) And 3 of the days he missed were because we all had the Noro virus which resulted in a trip to the ER because of dehydration.

23 days is excessive without illness. I get that. Even with illness it's still a lot. I'm not thrilled that the kid missed that much school. I would have much preferred he feel like going to school and not be laying on the couch or bed! He's always made up the work, and kept his grades up.

I do believe had he missed 144 days I'd be a "bad" parent. I would not deserve to be raising him and his brother!!! 144 days would mean he only attended school 31 days!!!!!!

Is my math screwy? Have I made a serious error in my math? If I'm wrong in my math, please tell me. My math skills have been known to be sketchy at times! Obviously, I'm not that objective to too much information my ex feels I'm wrong about. I did divorce him for a reason!:eek:
 


sandyclaus

Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Montana

OK....I'm asking because my lovely Ex-husband is accusing me of allowing our son to miss 144 days of school.

My math is as follows: 37 weeks (approx) x 5 day/wk=185 days of school (give or take a few days).

The child has missed 23 days this year. He has battled ear infections this year. And battled Doctors who didn't want to treat the infections aggressively or at all (after four rounds of amoxicillin *sp* over a 4 month period--FINALLY got a referral to an ENT and a prescription for augmentin *sp* and some steroids to reduce the swelling and irritation! Voila ear infection was gone...kid is 14 so they really didn't and don't want to put tubes in his ears---at least until this next visit and I have to insist they do something because he's since had another one!) And 3 of the days he missed were because we all had the Noro virus which resulted in a trip to the ER because of dehydration.

23 days is excessive without illness. I get that. Even with illness it's still a lot. I'm not thrilled that the kid missed that much school. I would have much preferred he feel like going to school and not be laying on the couch or bed! He's always made up the work, and kept his grades up.

I do believe had he missed 144 days I'd be a "bad" parent. I would not deserve to be raising him and his brother!!! 144 days would mean he only attended school 31 days!!!!!!

Is my math screwy? Have I made a serious error in my math? If I'm wrong in my math, please tell me. My math skills have been known to be sketchy at times! Obviously, I'm not that objective to too much information my ex feels I'm wrong about. I did divorce him for a reason!:eek:
Did you seriously just ask us to do a math problem for you? If it's not a legal question, well... I don't think you are going to find much help.

However, if you are just venting... well, hope you had fun while it lasted.
 

I'mTheFather

Senior Member
You don't say he's claiming that your son has missed 144 days this school year. Maybe he's adding all the absences from the past few years.
 

Ladyback1

Senior Member
You don't say he's claiming that your son has missed 144 days this school year. Maybe he's adding all the absences from the past few years.
LOL...yes, he's claiming this year ALONE!

I'm not asking a legal opinion but for some objectivity so hopeful, it doesn't become legal oriented!

While having him drag me into court over this and the judge telling him he's a moron would not bother me---I certainly don't want to have made a mathematical error and being the moron. Furthermore, I actually don't like having to go to court over silly-a$$ crap if that's what it is.
 

ecmst12

Senior Member
We can't see the calender showing the days he's missed and we can't count them up. However, if you graduated from kindergarden, this should not be a problem for you. I don't see how you could frame this as a MATH problem.
 

Ladyback1

Senior Member
We can't see the calender showing the days he's missed and we can't count them up. However, if you graduated from kindergarden, this should not be a problem for you. I don't see how you could frame this as a MATH problem.
Well, it's not a problem for me (the math). Obviously it is for him since he hasn't responded to the email where I explained my math.

He's been looking for something to pick apart showing me as an unfit parent. Obviously, I don't think I am!

;)
 

Ohiogal

Queen Bee
Well, it's not a problem for me (the math). Obviously it is for him since he hasn't responded to the email where I explained my math.

He's been looking for something to pick apart showing me as an unfit parent. Obviously, I don't think I am!

;)
23 days may be above the threshhold allowed before the child crosses into being truant however and the juvenile court system can take a look stepping in to the matter.
 

LdiJ

Senior Member
23 days may be above the threshhold allowed before the child crosses into being truant however and the juvenile court system can take a look stepping in to the matter.
I agree, but mom has clearly stated that there is medical documentation for the illnesses that caused the absences. It also does not appear that the school has indicated that they are unexcused.
 

Ladyback1

Senior Member
I agree, but mom has clearly stated that there is medical documentation for the illnesses that caused the absences. It also does not appear that the school has indicated that they are unexcused.
Yes, they were all excused. And yes, have documentation to support that shows recurrent ear infections.

Like I said, my preference would have been the kiddo be up and about being his usual smart-alecky teenager self. ;) Unfortunately, when he has had them and the doctor kept throwing amoxil at them, he just kept relapsing. If he'd have been a toddler, they probably would have treated or assessed the ears differently, but I'll never know.

Never fear, the Ex--the kids father, has moved on to something else to whine and b*tch about...
 

TinkerBelleLuvr

Senior Member
Why not get the information from the school showing the number of days in the school year? Is there any fear that he will NOT continue onto the next grade? Generally, 10% absences or more may possibly not allow them to get credit for their school work.
 

LdiJ

Senior Member
Why not get the information from the school showing the number of days in the school year? Is there any fear that he will NOT continue onto the next grade? Generally, 10% absences or more may possibly not allow them to get credit for their school work.
In our school district if the absences are excused, the work may be made up and therefore as long as they make it up, they can continue into the next grade. I thought that most school systems were similar, but perhaps not.
 

gam

Senior Member
In our school district if the absences are excused, the work may be made up and therefore as long as they make it up, they can continue into the next grade. I thought that most school systems were similar, but perhaps not.
In my school system that has been changed. Anything over 15 absences excused or not can be a problem. The thought process behind this, is that while you can make up the work, your still missing out by not being in the classroom actually getting your lessons from the teacher.

So some school disctricts have changed their tune in this area.
 

LdiJ

Senior Member
14 yr olds should not be missing this much school due to "ear infections" ...
Have you ever had an ear infection as an adult? I have, and believe me I cannot function at work with an ear infection, so I can fully understand why a teenager wouldn't be able to function at school. Once the antibiotics have a chance to kick in its a different story, but until then, the pain is too bad.
 

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