resitance was futile
again, because you dont want to admit that i am right in this situation... keep your comments to yourself until a real answer can be made
I may not be a senior here lady but I feel a desire to chime in after reading your posting hx and this horrible excuse for a question or 2 or 10. You remind me so much of a female version of my ex. There is bad blood, anger and dare I say hatred that I am trying my best to not stoop to the same level any more. But people like you and him make it very hard to ignore. It is very hard to constantly and consistently be attacked with childish, selfish and idiotic things and let it slide. especially when it is on a weekly or daily basis.
It takes a lot of will power and love for your child to ignore such things, but sometimes you do break and from what I've read time and again YOU have pushed enough, when your ex has found a solution to subdue YOU, to make him respond.
So here is my advice to you, go get therapy for your son, get therapy for yourself. Understand in a few years when that now sweet 7 year old tells you where to go that YOU are to BLAME. YOU are going to screw up your child. YOU are going to make him a badly adjusted kid with psychological problems and YOU are going to make him choose to hate you. YOUR behavior is going to lose YOU, your child because YOU can not think of HIM instead of revenge and making his DAD miserable.
Get over yourself and grow up.