How many times can someone request discovery?

[Bali Hai]

healing through cruel and insulting criticism of your target.

In other words; making yourself feel better by bitching about whoever harmed you


and it is plain English and the most concise and correct terminology for the intent of the statement. Anything else is merely a definition while the words used express specific meanings which I intended to convey.

You want me to conform and say the system works just fine the way it is. I'm not going to do that because it isn't true.

 

[justalayman]

You want me to conform and say the system works just fine the way it is. I'm not going to do that because it isn't true.

Not at all Bali. All I am suggesting (because what I want means nothing) is that if you do want to help others by using your situation as an example is that you not come across like a whiny little boy that didn't get what he felt he deserved. Express the facts in a manner that allows a poster see that not everything works out like the rules are intended to cause. There is something to be learned from your experience but the constant acerbic (kind of like vitriolic) outbursts do nothing to benefit a poster other than to show you have an emotional issue that continues to haunt you to this day. Sure, it might hurt and that is part of what your story should convey but when I think about it, I do not recall you ever explaining what happened in reference to the laws and actions within the divorce such that it could be used as a source of information to help a poster in their situation. It just comes across as whining.

 

[ecmst12]

What I would like you to do, Bali, is stop coming on here claiming that your "worst case scenario" that you experienced in your divorce is somehow "the norm" and every male getting divorced in the entire country is likely to experience the same thing. Not only that but every person who gets MARRIED is going to experience that, because in your opinion, marriage is an evil institution that can only result in men getting screwed over. Your rants are not any more helpful to posters then being told that no one ever gets alimony and if you didn't work during the marriage you might as well starve. Your posts don't claim that what happened to you COULD happen to them, you claim it WILL, every time.

 

[Bali Hai]

What I would like you to do, Bali, is stop coming on here claiming that your "worst case scenario" that you experienced in your divorce is somehow "the norm" and every male getting divorced in the entire country is likely to experience the same thing. Not only that but every person who gets MARRIED is going to experience that, because in your opinion, marriage is an evil institution that can only result in men getting screwed over. Your rants are not any more helpful to posters then being told that no one ever gets alimony and if you didn't work during the marriage you might as well starve. Your posts don't claim that what happened to you COULD happen to them, you claim it WILL, every time.

Too many people (in power) still believe that marriage means that the man is indebted to take care of the woman for life. If that's evil, then yes I believe marriage is an evil institution.

Hey, what's this, beat up on Bali day? Apparently I struck a nerve revealing the truth about lawyers who harrass people with unending discovery requests to support their witch hunts.

 

[justalayman]

Hey, what's this, beat up on Bali day? Apparently I struck a nerve revealing the truth about lawyers who harrass people with unending discovery requests to support their witch hunts.

actually just the opposite. Have I been mean or insulting in my posts? I am simply trying to get you to use your situation to help people rather than be seen as some nut on a rant.