While I agree with this in essense, it is not always possible for a person to keep some private information from others, and this could be especially the case in a marital relationship.
Certainly invasion of privacy/publication of private fact suits should not be considered unless the publicity given the private facts has disrupted one's life in a major way (ie, loss of a job, loss of relationships, loss of esteem in the community).
Generally the existence of a public record precludes any recovery for invasion of privacy, regardless of the embarrassment additional attention to the public record may cause. But
generally is not
always.
In one 1983 case out of Privacy747's California, the Oakland Tribune was sued for invasion of privacy after publishing a story about a college student who had become the first woman student body president in the history of the college. The story that was published could have been a feel-good story about the accomplishments of this young woman but, instead, the Tribune located her birth certificate (a public record) that showed the college woman had been born male.
She became legally female through a sex-change operation. And it was on this fact that the Tribune concentrated their story. She sued. A jury awarded the woman $775,000 and, as newspapers are wont to do, the Tribune appealed the decision. The case was finally settled out of court, with the Tribune paying the woman around $300,000. See
Diaz v Oakland Tribune, Inc, 139 Cal App.3d 118, 188 Cal Rptr. 762, 766 (1983), 9 Med.L.Rptr, 1121, 1122.
There have also been successful publication of private facts suits over publicity given to forced sterilization victims and rape victims.
From the Restatement (Second) of Torts Section 652D: "The line is to be drawn when the publicity ceases to be the giving of information to which the public is entitled, and becomes a morbid and sensational prying into private lives for its own sake. . ."
California has, as Privacy747 noted, strong privacy laws. California is also home to what is regarded as the leading decision in privacy law (
Melvin v Reid, 112 Cal App 285, 297 P.91, 1931), a privacy suit that centered on an old murder case and a prostitute charged with the crime. A movie was made about the case and the prostitute (who had been acquited) was named. She sued.
From another California privacy case involving public records,
Briscoe v Reader's Digest Ass'n (1971), California Supreme Court Justice Raymond E. Peters said: "In a nation built upon the free dissemination of ideas, it is always difficult to declare that something may not be published. . .But the rights guaranteed by the First Amendment do not require total abrogation of the right to privacy. The goals sought by each other may be achieved with a minimum of intrusion on the other." (despite those words from Justice Peters, Briscoe wound up losing his action against Reader's Digest)
It is really impossible to determine if Privacy747 has any, or will have any, sort of privacy action against her ex-husband. The facts must be private enough, the injury has to be severe enough, and the publication objectionable enough to warrant not only the high costs of a suit and the additional publicity that will be given the private facts, but also to be successful in an action.
(thanks for the nice words, Silverplum
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