Another PITA inlaw thread

[Bulldog1]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NY

To add to my misery, my STB-X-MIL is demanding money I give back for household appliances that were housewarming gifts. I told her that she can take them all back all I care. Now she won't leave my home until she gets the money. I was advised by my attorney to not write any checks to her until our custody case is settled. He said we can settle this issue in divorce court.

My question, my stbxmil was invited over a guest by my stbx against my will. Her reason was so she can spend quality time with her grandchild (my daughter). It has been almost a week now and she's still here. I feel that she is basically extorting me for money or else she won't leave. What can I do? It's obvious now of her intentions of staying in my house.

 

[Ohiogal]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NY

To add to my misery, my STB-X-MIL is demanding money I give back for household appliances that were housewarming gifts. I told her that she can take them all back all I care. Now she won't leave my home until she gets the money. I was advised by my attorney to not write any checks to her until our custody case is settled. He said we can settle this issue in divorce court.

My question, my stbxmil was invited over a guest by my stbx against my will. Her reason was so she can spend quality time with her grandchild (my daughter). It has been almost a week now and she's still here. I feel that she is basically extorting me for money or else she won't leave. What can I do? It's obvious now of her intentions of staying in my house.

Dude,
add this to your other thread. DO NOT start a new thread for every question or thought.

 

[CSO286]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NY

To add to my misery, my STB-X-MIL is demanding money I give back for household appliances that were housewarming gifts. I told her that she can take them all back all I care. Now she won't leave my home until she gets the money. I was advised by my attorney to not write any checks to her until our custody case is settled. He said we can settle this issue in divorce court.

My question, my stbxmil was invited over a guest by my stbx against my will. Her reason was so she can spend quality time with her grandchild (my daughter). It has been almost a week now and she's still here. I feel that she is basically extorting me for money or else she won't leave. What can I do? It's obvious now of her intentions of staying in my house.

Your STBX has every right to invite his mother to the marital home.

And I'd not give anyone the monetary value of their gifts back. Perhaps she should look up the word "gift" in the dictionary.