evil sis and dad

[Goooost]

What do you think you have coming out of this? It sure doesn't sound like you're really concerned about your mother's care. You're more interested in seeing what you can try to get out of it for yourself. If your sister is a heroin addict, I sincerely doubt she would have been in any shape to handle your mother's affairs. Why would you rely on an addict for information anyway?

So basically none of you have anything of the legal nature to say but you want to speculate on the personal circumstances herein. The reviews were right about you people in this forum. This is at the level of facebook for bored lonely frustrated wannabe attorneys that rather than give legal advice want to make wisecracks for their geekish pathetic forum friends......I got the advice i needed from a much better forum ......Bye bye you pathetic fakes!!!!!

 

[Gail in Georgia]

"I got the advice i needed from a much better forum"

Sure you did honey.

I must say that, working in health care where many of our patients require placement outside the home, commentators advice was extremely thorough and accurate in regards to the financial issues of long term care needs of these folks.

It is not unusual that one family member must step forward to handle these issues and other family members come out of the woodwork somewhere down the road to question these decisions. And yes, it does all come down to money and inheritance expectations.

Gail

 

[anteater]

... when my granmother ended up in a nursing facility, I saved the home from being taken from her and I may have been able to do the same for my mom

Well... shoot... I wanted to hear more about this.

 

[OHRoadwarrior]

"I got the advice i needed from a much better forum"

Sure you did honey.

I must say that, working in health care where many of our patients require placement outside the home, commentators advice was extremely thorough and accurate in regards to the financial issues of long term care needs of these folks.

It is not unusual that one family member must step forward to handle these issues and other family members come out of the woodwork somewhere down the road to question these decisions. And yes, it does all come down to money and inheritance expectations.

Gail

OP reminds me of my sister. I had to move out of state for a few years working. I told my sister she would need to oversee mom making good health care choices. She was incensed when she discovered she was not getting moms financial control and her attempts to get a life insurance policy on mom, payable to herself failed. My mom asked me if my sister was planning on having her killed. My mom has had me make sure her estate is tied up the way she wishes, with the majority of residual going to myself for managing her affairs for the past 2 decades.