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Can the neighborhood we live in be considered "child endangerment?"

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72dad

Junior Member
Our home is safe, and we are both loving, careful parents. Our 22-month old son is thriving here under our care.

For many reasons, our marriage counselor, my family, and me all agree that my wife lives out of unreasonable fear and paranoia and needs counseling and perhaps medication.

She, unsurprisingly, has not responded well to these attempts to care for her and is threatening to leave and take our son to stay several counties away.

As of now, my wife is planning on leaving and I suspect that no attempt at reconciliation will succeed. It seems that things are heading to a legal separation, or divorce.

We live in an inner-city neighborhood that, though still urban, is increasingly being gentrified and old homes are being torn down for new, fancy condos. The neighborhood is thriving and lots of new businesses, restaurants and shops are opening. I've met many young couples with young children who've recently moved into our street specifically and the neighborhood generally. Our home itself is safe and beautifully renovated. It fits our family and our needs.

My wife feels the neighborhood itself is unsafe and merely living here is endangering our child.

Can she make that argument legally?

Wouldn't that put the court in the position of making a precedent that any parents raising their children in this neighborhood are endangering their children?
 


Proserpina

Senior Member
Our home is safe, and we are both loving, careful parents. Our 22-month old son is thriving here under our care.

For many reasons, our marriage counselor, my family, and me all agree that my wife lives out of unreasonable fear and paranoia and needs counseling and perhaps medication.

She, unsurprisingly, has not responded well to these attempts to care for her and is threatening to leave and take our son to stay several counties away.

As of now, my wife is planning on leaving and I suspect that no attempt at reconciliation will succeed. It seems that things are heading to a legal separation, or divorce.

We live in an inner-city neighborhood that, though still urban, is increasingly being gentrified and old homes are being torn down for new, fancy condos. The neighborhood is thriving and lots of new businesses, restaurants and shops are opening. I've met many young couples with young children who've recently moved into our street specifically and the neighborhood generally. Our home itself is safe and beautifully renovated. It fits our family and our needs.

My wife feels the neighborhood itself is unsafe and merely living here is endangering our child.

Can she make that argument legally?

Wouldn't that put the court in the position of making a precedent that any parents raising their children in this neighborhood are endangering their children?


Unless you're letting your child walk around unattended to play in dangerous dilapidated old houses and/or with child sex offenders, Mom has nothing.

People need to live somewhere, y'know?
 

Just Blue

Senior Member
Our home is safe, and we are both loving, careful parents. Our 22-month old son is thriving here under our care.

For many reasons, our marriage counselor, my family, and me all agree that my wife lives out of unreasonable fear and paranoia and needs counseling and perhaps medication.

She, unsurprisingly, has not responded well to these attempts to care for her and is threatening to leave and take our son to stay several counties away.

As of now, my wife is planning on leaving and I suspect that no attempt at reconciliation will succeed. It seems that things are heading to a legal separation, or divorce.

We live in an inner-city neighborhood that, though still urban, is increasingly being gentrified and old homes are being torn down for new, fancy condos. The neighborhood is thriving and lots of new businesses, restaurants and shops are opening. I've met many young couples with young children who've recently moved into our street specifically and the neighborhood generally. Our home itself is safe and beautifully renovated. It fits our family and our needs.

My wife feels the neighborhood itself is unsafe and merely living here is endangering our child.

Can she make that argument legally?

Wouldn't that put the court in the position of making a precedent that any parents raising their children in this neighborhood are endangering their children?
U.S. Law Only/
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
O/T But... What's happening to all the families/others who are being displaced while you all "gentrify" their neighborhood?
 

72dad

Junior Member
O/T But... What's happening to all the families/others who are being displaced while you all "gentrify" their neighborhood?

Ah... well, I used that word less accurately than I should have... sorry.

It's a RustBelt city with a lot of vacant/abandoned housing. Less displacement and more young individuals/families interested in rebuilding and revitalizing. Been year 4 years, great relationships with neighbors new and old. No one is being driven out, more like new people moving in and filling up abandoned and neglected properties.


Anyway - any more thoughts on the legal question?
 

72dad

Junior Member
But if you did, it wouldn't make you an unfit mother.
And that's the legal question I'm asking.

(It's Ohio, not Detroit)

We lived in this house for several years before the child, we have a large number of friends and family within walking distance, we've invested a ton into the house and the neighborhood.

We're not "moving the child into" an inner-city neighborhood. This is where we lived when he was born.

Can she argue that my wanting to stay is somehow endangerment? It seems that "no" is the answer. I'll update you all after I meet with the attorney tomorrow.
 

Ohiogal

Queen Bee
And that's the legal question I'm asking.

(It's Ohio, not Detroit)

We lived in this house for several years before the child, we have a large number of friends and family within walking distance, we've invested a ton into the house and the neighborhood.

We're not "moving the child into" an inner-city neighborhood. This is where we lived when he was born.

Can she argue that my wanting to stay is somehow endangerment? It seems that "no" is the answer. I'll update you all after I meet with the attorney tomorrow.
She is an idiot. I do juvenile law (dependency, neglect and abuse) and live in a Rust Belt city. It is NOT child endangerment.
 

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