Payback for wifes affair

[brandon2028]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Texas

My wife had an affair with a coworker and I want to set up a hotmail email acount with his name in the address and email all their friends and coworkers and say "I have been sleeping with a married coworker and have broken up their marriage and I feel like a worm for it" No signature just the name in the address.

Would this be illegal for a one time thing?

 

[Proserpina]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Texas

My wife had an affair with a coworker and I want to set up a hotmail email acount with his name in the address and email all their friends and coworkers and say "I have been sleeping with a married coworker and have broken up their marriage and I feel like a worm for it" No signature just the name in the address.

Would this be illegal for a one time thing?

With all due respect, are you trolling?

That's probably the most stupid thing I've read here today. It's quite obvious why your wife jumped the fence.

Grow up.

 

[Isis1]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Texas

My wife had an affair with a coworker and I want to set up a hotmail email acount with his name in the address and email all their friends and coworkers and say "I have been sleeping with a married coworker and have broken up their marriage and I feel like a worm for it" No signature just the name in the address.

Would this be illegal for a one time thing?

you mean like idenity fraud?

dude...just get a divorce!

 

[Eekamouse]

What makes you think the guy feels bad for breaking up your marriage?

 

[Proserpina]

The other guy didn't break up the marriage

 

[Eekamouse]

Whoops! You're right. He didn't. OP wants to put the blame on him instead of on his wife. She's the only one he should be upset with. The other man had no vow to break with him.

 

[ecmst12]

And generally when someone's cheating in a marriage, both spouses have some fault for the problem. Maybe not 100% of the time, but still most of the time.

 

[Proserpina]

And generally when someone's cheating in a marriage, both spouses have some fault for the problem. Maybe not 100% of the time, but still most of the time.

Very often, it takes two to make a marriage and two to break a marriage.

(In my teeny little opinionette)

 

[Eekamouse]

Teeny little opinionette! That made me laugh!

 

[Proserpina]

Teeny little opinionette! That made me laugh!

My work here is done

 

[Cerydwen]

Your Reaction...

Your reaction says a lot about why your wife was cheating on you. You just don't seem to be a very mature person. Also, if you read the fine print when making email accounts you'll see that what you are proposing to do also violates the terms of service from Outlook, it's not hotmail anymore...

 

[single317dad]

Your reaction says a lot about why your wife was cheating on you. You just don't seem to be a very mature person. Also, if you read the fine print when making email accounts you'll see that what you are proposing to do also violates the terms of service from Outlook, it's not hotmail anymore...

Not only that, but if you get the wrong people interested, violating a website's TOS for nefarious purposes might be pursued as a felony by the DOJ.

http://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2013/01/aarons-law-violating-a-sites-terms-of-service-should-not-land-you-in-jail/267247/

That's only one of thousands of articles on the Aaron Swartz case, I didn't bother searching for an unbiased reliable source, I just took the first Google result.

 

[Bali Hai]

Your reaction says a lot about why your wife was cheating on you. You just don't seem to be a very mature person. Also, if you read the fine print when making email accounts you'll see that what you are proposing to do also violates the terms of service from Outlook, it's not hotmail anymore...

Of course, when a wife screws around, it's always the husbands fault. When the husband screws around, he's a dog.

 

[Ohiogal]

Of course, when a wife screws around, it's always the husbands fault. When the husband screws around, he's a dog.

When anyone in a marriage screws around, it is the fault of the one screwing around. There may be problems in the marriage but that is NOT a reason or excuse to have an affair. So wife is to blame here. Anger at the other party is normal but wife is the main issue and the one who should have decided to either end the current relationship before straying or not strayed.

 

[LdiJ]

When anyone in a marriage screws around, it is the fault of the one screwing around. There may be problems in the marriage but that is NOT a reason or excuse to have an affair. So wife is to blame here. Anger at the other party is normal but wife is the main issue and the one who should have decided to either end the current relationship before straying or not strayed.

I really, wholeheartedly agree with this. I think that any of us who have been through a cheating spouse would like to blame the third party. Its so much easier emotionally to believe that your spouse wouldn't have done that to you unless someone "lured" them into it. However, the reality is that no one is to blame but the person who decided to cheat.