and it will cost somebody money to deal with this. Lawyers don't work for free and based on your questions, it is going to require the assistance of an attorney.
Since my original post, my father has filed a request for conservator/guardianship power and the court decided to grant him "emergency" powers. The judge also assigned 4 attorneys (guardians for each of the grandparents as well as two others to review financials, etc..). There have been 3 delays in the conservator/guardianship hearing and the costs continue to ad up. We estimate the cost of all attorneys involved (7 total, however 2 stepped down and there are now only 5 including my fathers attorney) is in the neighborhood of $30,000.
Not ONE person throughout this process seems to have any concerns of the following:
1. An attorney hired by my uncle prepared a new POA and Will, and witnessed an obviously mentally incompetent person sign them. (And charged $4k to do so)
2. Two witnesses at the time of the POA signing were care givers at the assisted living home (the POA document specifically states that witnesses cannot be care-givers).
3. My uncle entered my fathers home without permission to get possession of a safety deposit box key (not sure if anything else was taken, and no physical proof that he entered the home other than the fact that it is the only way he could get the key that is now missing).
4. My uncle emptied my grandfathers safety deposit box which contained stock certificates, life insurance documents, and $80-100K worth of jewelry.
5. My uncle emptied all funds from my grandfathers accounts and deposited in his own personal accounts (no joint accounts).
6. My uncle failed to pay ANY bills for over 3 months while he had control of funds.
7. There is still several thousand dollars of my grandfathers funds that have not been returned.
8. A court appointed guardian (an attorney) who has access to the conservator/guardianship case shared my fathers personal financial information (bank account numbers and balances) with my uncles.
Note: By "uncles" I am referring to two brothers, one of which lives over 1000 miles northwest, and the other over 1000 miles east of my grandparents location. The uncle being discussed here filed a conservator request for my grandmother only, about a month ago, and another conservator request for my grandfather several days ago. The other uncle filed a guardianship request for my grandma only, several weeks ago, and another guardianship request for my grandfather several days ago. He has also stated that his intentions are to move my grandparents to a facility near him.
There is speculation that the attorney who has been appointed temporary guardian for my grandma has been advising at least one of the uncles. There has been information shared that is evidence of this (my fathers financial info being some of it).
Also, the "new" Will that my uncles attorney prepared listed my uncle as executor, and effectively wrote my grandma out of any inheritance. This is not even legal in CO so we are all curious as to why the attorney would have even prepared a Will in that manner. Assets are automatically transferred to the spouse in CO. So to recap, first my uncle writes my grandma out of the Will, months later he files a request to be only a conservator for her, then a month later files a request to be a conservator for my grandpa. I do not know much about law, but I cannot imagine any attorney advising his client that this in any way is proper or makes any sense whatsoever..