NYS Child Support (In reference to a recent thread)

[NYCTeacher]

I checked the 'senior posters' posting history to come up with the details...True story

 

[Silverplum]

regjoe is 100% NOT IndianaD7...Not that I know from personal experience...

Sure.

 

[stealth2]

I checked the 'senior posters' posting history to come up with the details...True story

So... who *else's* history did you look up? I find it interesting that you were compelled to look up mine - even more that you do know those details, considering I don't think I've posted those all that recently...

 

[CJane]

So... who *else's* history did you look up? I find it interesting that you were compelled to look up mine - even more that you do know those details, considering I don't think I've posted those all that recently...

I was just trying to figure out when the last time you'd posted about your specific situation must have been. Probably close to as long as it's been since I posted in any detail about mine.

 

[stealth2]

I was just trying to figure out when the last time you'd posted about your specific situation must have been. Probably close to as long as it's been since I posted in any detail about mine.

It really has been a while, I'm pretty sure.

I scanned my recent threads and my recent posts, and.... yeah. You'd have to dig DEEP (I didn't). So, NYTeacher - come clean.

 

[stealth2]

So, "Teach"... I see you were here an hour after my last post... No response? Guess what we all suspect is true.

 

[NYCTeacher]

So, "Teach"... I see you were here an hour after my last post... No response? Guess what we all suspect is true.

For some reason when i tried to post the reply last night i got a 'this message must be approved by a moderator before being approved'

Basically, since i've been in and out of court 4-5 times over the last 6yrs to work on my custody and parenting time case in NY and you said you had some info on NY, i looked up your first post. I believe it had something to do with child support, which i've studied extensively for NY, since i've never been ordered i want to make sure that what is paid (by her OR me) is the right amount...

 

[stealth2]

For some reason when i tried to post the reply last night i got a 'this message must be approved by a moderator before being approved'

Basically, since i've been in and out of court 4-5 times over the last 6yrs to work on my custody and parenting time case in NY and you said you had some info on NY, i looked up your first post. I believe it had something to do with child support, which i've studied extensively for NY, since i've never been ordered i want to make sure that what is paid (by her OR me) is the right amount...

Since you've studied it extensively, I'm sure there is little I could add to your knowledge.

 

[NYCTeacher]

Since you've studied it extensively, I'm sure there is little I could add to your knowledge.

Not REALLY with child support, i mean, "You never know what you don't know" and NYS Child Support is a bit iffy with the 'extras' being at the judges disgression, but Child Support i know enough to be able to answer most if not 99% of questions.

BTW: Did you move the children away from your ex first or did your ex move away from his children first? I do have some questions about how 'move away' friendly NY is, that i think you maybe able to help with.

 

[stealth2]

Not REALLY with child support, i mean, "You never know what you don't know" and NYS Child Support is a bit iffy with the 'extras' being at the judges disgression, but Child Support i know enough to be able to answer most if not 99% of questions.

BTW: Did you move the children away from your ex first or did your ex move away from his children first? I do have some questions about how 'move away' friendly NY is, that i think you maybe able to help with.

NY is not move friendly.

 

[NYCTeacher]

NY is not move friendly.

How did your children deal with their father moving away? Did they feel abandoned? Have you noticed any weakening of their relationship because of the reduced contact ability?

I could never move away for selfish reasons, I'd feel like i abandoned my child and the happiest part of my day is when i see her. I don't think i could go more then a couple days without that.

 

[stealth2]

The answers to your questions can be found with persistence.

 

[CJane]

NY is not move friendly.

In fact, I think NY is one of the LEAST friendly states for move-aways.

 

[breezymom]

In fact, I think NY is one of the LEAST friendly states for move-aways.

You aren't kidding about that. Even the counties within aren't very move-friendly, some of them. I was trying to convince my coworker of this, who was trying to push me into transferring to another workplace hours away, but she refused to believe that the chances of it being allowed are slim to none, since after all, she knows everything

 

[stealth2]

How did your children deal with their father moving away? Did they feel abandoned? Have you noticed any weakening of their relationship because of the reduced contact ability?

I could never move away for selfish reasons, I'd feel like i abandoned my child and the happiest part of my day is when i see her. I don't think i could go more then a couple days without that.

ROFLMBO!!! Now that I've read YOUR thread - did you really expect me to help you? REALLY? Well, it ain't happenin', dude. Not even of Hades freezes over. All you want is to use your child to punish your ex - and that is not at all cool. But - welcome to the club. My ex thought he could do the same. SURPRISE!