What happens to Finances/Assets in this case

[Bali Hai]

You're still at it?

Sigh. Bali love, you really need to get some therapy. What you've written here is not helping the OP. You didn't even read his original post properly. He's been married a very short time. Comprendez vous?

If OP can hang on to the marriage longer and she makes more money than him, he just might be able to cash in on her hard work. Happens all the time.

Oh hang on - is it that time of the month where you have to send a check? Okay, now I understand.

You just talked me out of sending that check. I feel much better now. Thank you!

 

[single317dad]

I don't see anything wrong with the questions OP has asked, or the way he asked them. It seems English is not his primary language. It also seems, from the limited information at hand, that his wife is indeed behaving badly. The only reason I see to bash him is because he doesn't want to end the sham marriage that's the root of his troubles. That's probably a cultural thing.

 

[Proserpina]

I don't see anything wrong with the questions OP has asked, or the way he asked them. It seems English is not his primary language. It also seems, from the limited information at hand, that his wife is indeed behaving badly. The only reason I see to bash him is because he doesn't want to end the sham marriage that's the root of his troubles. That's probably a cultural thing.

You'll notice that before Bali's hijack, this thread wasn't actually so bad.

 

[ecmst12]

This is also OP's 2nd thread on this topic.

 

[single317dad]

You'll notice that before Bali's hijack, this thread wasn't actually so bad.

It happens. That should probably go in the sticky

This is also OP's 2nd thread on this topic.

The CS questions struck me as someone completely legally ignorant on the subject. There are plenty of people who actually think that way until they get their legal education from a family court judge. They end up being the same bitter guys who post on fathers rights sites. I'm glad OP is here asking those questions; hopefully he'll return, read the answers, respond, and learn a few things.

 

[rajcs25]

There are all kinds of situations in this world that people have.
I would have written here honestly if there was any abuse involve, because i need correct information

Hence i wrote all the correct information.
What she thinks of me and whether she likes me or not or how many issues she thinks she has with me is not debatable here.
But If there was physical abuse or not is a simple question and my answer is 'NO', not from either sides

But there is a Financial Abuse that i am going through as she is not contributing

For the OP: I am struck at the casual way you said:

It makes me wonder how abusive you are -- not if you are, I already determined that I think you are -- just how much you are.

I hope it isn't physical abuse, but I'm concerned.

DC

 

[rajcs25]

Thank you for your support

While so many others commented by simply not believing me and blaming me, i appreciate your support

Yes English is not my Primary Language

Yes my wife is behaving very badly.

I can admit, i may not be the perfect guy, but i have not physically harmed her or forced her to spend money or cook for me or do anything for me
She just simply does not want to contribute money and make me spend more and more money. Hence there are fights that arise due to that.

People may think its hard to believe, but i have proof of that as of course i have spent all with credit cards and her balance is getting accumulated.

Not breaking up marriage is also a cultural thing. I have been through it in the past and i dont want it
She has also been through it in the past but her family negatively influences her to make wrong decisions.

I don't see anything wrong with the questions OP has asked, or the way he asked them. It seems English is not his primary language. It also seems, from the limited information at hand, that his wife is indeed behaving badly. The only reason I see to bash him is because he doesn't want to end the sham marriage that's the root of his troubles. That's probably a cultural thing.

 

[single317dad]

Thank you for your support

While so many others commented by simply not believing me and blaming me, i appreciate your support

Yes English is not my Primary Language

Yes my wife is behaving very badly.

I can admit, i may not be the perfect guy, but i have not physically harmed her or forced her to spend money or cook for me or do anything for me
She just simply does not want to contribute money and make me spend more and more money. Hence there are fights that arise due to that.

People may think its hard to believe, but i have proof of that as of course i have spent all with credit cards and her balance is getting accumulated.

Not breaking up marriage is also a cultural thing. I have been through it in the past and i dont want it
She has also been through it in the past but her family negatively influences her to make wrong decisions.

If the two of you can't come to an agreement on how to live as a married couple, then you need to terminate the marriage. I strongly suggest you retain a competent attorney for that, as it's quite possible you would not be responsible for all the debt you have accumulated during your marriage. Otherwise, you'll just have to learn to live with the "bad behavior"; there's no way to force her to behave differently.