Weird situation, I don't want to commit libel/slander/defamation

[chucky123]

But just think of what happens to your work space when you're not there.

The janitor could be having relations with his girlfriend...or her girlfriend...or his boyfriend...right where you sit.

(Do they sell Luminol to the general public?)

And if the janitor was, they deserve to be fired. If everyone is doing it, like you are hinting at, it should not be a fireable offence but really most places you work you would get fired over it. Meaning, I am not the only person offended by this, and its not what is considered normal behavior, at least according to most bosses.

 

[Proserpina]

And if the janitor was, they deserve to be fired. If everyone is doing it, like you are hinting at, it should not be a fireable offence but really most places you work you would get fired over it. Meaning, I am not the only person offended by this, and its not what is considered normal behavior, at least according to most bosses.

*watches in amazement at the words flying right over chucky's head*

I'm thinking you should consider giving up message boards for Lent or something. They don't seem to be working out for you.

 

[OHRoadwarrior]

It appears he would gladly transgress if he knew how to go about it. That is apparently what he finds so scary.

And the reason you didn't ignore the contact is....what?

Delete button didn't work?

 

[quincy]

chucky123, in this thread you say you live in North Carolina. Did you recently move?

 

[OHRoadwarrior]

Perhaps he is trying to fly under the radar.

chucky123, in this thread you say you live in North Carolina. Did you recently move?

 

[Ohiogal]

Anyone else concerned about children being around someone who adopts the username of a murderous doll?

 

[Eekamouse]

OP, maybe he's the guy that got your friend pregnant. You probably should be working towards getting them together rather than trying to slander him on the internet.

 

[Rwedunyet]

I'm not a lawyer, but I am a woman. And since its a woman that you're looking for, I thought I'd offer a little advice in that area.

I think that maybe, perhaps, and possibly if you would work on your attitude just a little tiny bit, then maybe you wouldn't have to rely on internet dating services. See? With a decent attitude, you could attract women without having to be "attacked" by vicious sexual deviants online.

 

[Just Blue]

So you believe phone calls and emails are insufficient proof in court? Id like to know where you get your experience with this, I am sure they are used all the time. Also from googling, it appears it would be on him to prove its false, not for me to prove its true. But obviously I am not a legal professional and came here for advice. Not to be slammed for being homophobic when I am very much not.

The whole thing about the kids was about ME worrying, like I said, he did absolutely nothing to make be believe he is doing something wrong with kids. Would I want my kids to be supervised by him on a regular basis knowing what I know. No.

Do you want your kids watched by someone who doesn't take no for an answer and thinks its appropriate to have sex on their co workers desks? Answer that one please...

If I saw on the news 2 years later he was doing something terrible, how do you think I would feel if I didn't post this? How do you think I would feel if I posted it and it attracted police attention and it was found out he was doing something terrible and my post brought it to light? This is about living with myself if something bad really was going on and I didn't do everything in my power to stop it.

Frankly what over 18 year olds do on a bed, desk or elsewhere have NOTHING to do with a child or my child. Why do you "think" that it is more likely that "BAD MISTER WANTSEXONTHEDESKWITHRANDOMMAN" is MORE of a danger than the 30 year old Woman that might to live on the kinky? And why do you think this has any bit to do with children...