Well yes i do consider it my money. Although it was accumulated during the marriage. I had an accident and was awarded $500,000.00 then my mother passed away and I inherited an additional large sum.
I have not worked since my accident and although he worked he never deposited a penny into that account, only took money out for bills.
I ask about a time frame because I was under the impression that once divorce proceedings were started no money could be transferred. He has hired a divorce attorney and has a written agreement that he wishes me to sign.
So legally I can cash out the balance?
Well then it is your money, or at least it was your separate property at the time received.
But it is likely that your husband is going to argue that the money was transmuted from separate to marital by either commingling and/or that depositing it in a joint account constituted a gift to the marital estate.
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Regarding you question about the timing of his action in proximity to starting a divorce action:
In New York, as in many other states, the filing of a divorce precipitates an automatic TRO that enjoins both parties from transferring marital assets.. (It prohibits much more, but to know you will need to read it at NY DRL §236(B)(2).
However, all we are told is that your husband has been merely talking to his divorce lawyer and nothing yet filed.
What you need to do is to quit looking for answers on the Internet and get with your own divorce lawyer and quickly!.
In the meant time, yes - cash out the balance! But before anyone files.