What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NJ
Husband always threatens divorce..... We have separate bank accounts and some joint accounts. He has a good job and wears a uniform, I have a good job as an executive assistant to the chairman of the company I work for. I work in New York City. I dress up for work. I spend a decent amount of my $ in clothing and accessories, shoes, etc.
Since he wears a uniform, he saves a bit more than I do but I put a fair amount of money away as well. I have a bit more in my 401K plan but he has more in his savings account.
This morning, in one of his mental meltdowns, he said he was going to hide his money that's in his saving account so that I don't go after it to take 1/2. Just a tidbit of information ...he co-mingled his pre marital $ with the money that he is earning during our marriage which is a big no-no on his part.. (he doesn't know that what he did, was a big mistake). Since I make more than he does, technically he can come after me for alimony. Since he co-mingled assets, I could go after his bank account and get 1/2....
So, what happens if he hides his $ ????
Husband always threatens divorce..... We have separate bank accounts and some joint accounts. He has a good job and wears a uniform, I have a good job as an executive assistant to the chairman of the company I work for. I work in New York City. I dress up for work. I spend a decent amount of my $ in clothing and accessories, shoes, etc.
Since he wears a uniform, he saves a bit more than I do but I put a fair amount of money away as well. I have a bit more in my 401K plan but he has more in his savings account.
This morning, in one of his mental meltdowns, he said he was going to hide his money that's in his saving account so that I don't go after it to take 1/2. Just a tidbit of information ...he co-mingled his pre marital $ with the money that he is earning during our marriage which is a big no-no on his part.. (he doesn't know that what he did, was a big mistake). Since I make more than he does, technically he can come after me for alimony. Since he co-mingled assets, I could go after his bank account and get 1/2....
So, what happens if he hides his $ ????