No I understand your point... just so sick of him thinking that everything can be handed to him or done for him. He is an only child-and not to stereotype-but he has had things pretty easy in terms of his parents doing everything for him.
I just want him to take responsibility for what he wants. If he doesn't take the proper steps in the next month or so, I'm sure I will be handling this. That is unfortunate to me because I don't even want the divorce. I want to work it out... perhaps counseling? He's opposed to it though. So, basically, that's why I am having a hard time taking the next step and filing. I don't want the divorce and I feel that he needs to take responsibility for his actions.
Thanks again though. I am responsible for my life and when I can come to terms with it, I will file if he hasn't already.
I just want him to take responsibility for what he wants. If he doesn't take the proper steps in the next month or so, I'm sure I will be handling this. That is unfortunate to me because I don't even want the divorce. I want to work it out... perhaps counseling? He's opposed to it though. So, basically, that's why I am having a hard time taking the next step and filing. I don't want the divorce and I feel that he needs to take responsibility for his actions.
Thanks again though. I am responsible for my life and when I can come to terms with it, I will file if he hasn't already.