What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Colorado
I have been giving my ex child support through the registry for about six months after being served. The thing is, we never had a court order (he says it's because he filed for CCAP that I was served at all) and all though we had a notarized paper from 2012 saying he took care of her most of the time, a lot has changed. Both of our addresses and the time our daughter has with each of us.
I am tired of dealing with this outside the courts. We constantly disagree and cannot seem to manage being adults about schedules! After being harassed by him via phone last week, I had to simply tell him no more phone calls. Emails only.
He has rejected mediation for so long, I basically gave the ultimatum of do it or I'm going to court. He finally took the step but that was after yet another drawn out disagreement that left me knowing I had to file regardless of his "co-operation" because by the time the county he filed for with mediation gets things going, he will be living in a different county and all-together he consistently backs out once things are close to happening.
I would like to know, on the paperwork, am I to file as respondent? Also, he will not give me his SSN. It was like pulling teeth to get his new address... I need to know if I can file without his SSN?
I have been giving my ex child support through the registry for about six months after being served. The thing is, we never had a court order (he says it's because he filed for CCAP that I was served at all) and all though we had a notarized paper from 2012 saying he took care of her most of the time, a lot has changed. Both of our addresses and the time our daughter has with each of us.
I am tired of dealing with this outside the courts. We constantly disagree and cannot seem to manage being adults about schedules! After being harassed by him via phone last week, I had to simply tell him no more phone calls. Emails only.
He has rejected mediation for so long, I basically gave the ultimatum of do it or I'm going to court. He finally took the step but that was after yet another drawn out disagreement that left me knowing I had to file regardless of his "co-operation" because by the time the county he filed for with mediation gets things going, he will be living in a different county and all-together he consistently backs out once things are close to happening.
I would like to know, on the paperwork, am I to file as respondent? Also, he will not give me his SSN. It was like pulling teeth to get his new address... I need to know if I can file without his SSN?