This thread is a newer one so it is not "closed" to comments or advice, but the original poster (stranger3232) has not returned to the forum since the 10th of December. Plus, stranger3232 seems to have had her questions answered already (by a California police officer, an Ohio attorney and other forum members). I am not sure there is much more to say.
It is possible, by the way, that stranger3232 hired for her son (or her son hired for himself) an attorney and the attorney has advised both to say nothing publicly. This is assuming the son has been charged. To remain silent is generally what attorneys will advise their clients. Posting about the crime online is just not smart.