What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
I have a couple of questions.
Some background: I’ve worked for a small business for over 20 years. Basically, it’s just been me and the owner, with a rotating cast of admin assts. Over the years. At one point I left for about a year, and he asked me back because he could not find anyone who could do everything I did to his satisfaction. At that time, he offered me a part of the business to be discussed; along with some other perqs to get me to come back. I did come back. I never got anything in writing. I know he is starting to think about retiring, and so for the last year I’ve been trying to get him to commit to anything. Nope – not gonna happen. I’m resigned to the fact that promises are worth the paper they are written on, though I feel really stupid.
My questions have made him uncomfortable, and things have been going even more downhill. I’ve continued to do my job to the best of my ability despite his suddenly making every single job more difficult by being infinitely more demanding. It’s clear that he wants me gone. Things boiled over earlier this week, and I’m so tired of the
environment. I asked for his co-operation in looking for another job by giving me a good reference. He responded by asking me for a hard date when I would be out. I told him that’s not what I had in mind – that I had planned on continuing to work until I found something else. He’s not having it; he is letting me go on a date that he set. I get that he can do that, and again I’m resigned to that.
As with every story, there is a lot more, but I think that’s all the important stuff. My questions are these:
1.) Did I quit? Or is he laying me off? Firing me? When I asked for his reference I didn’t intend it as quitting, but I’m not sure of the EDD perspective. Unemployment will probably be needed for a time, so I’m worried about this.
2.) How does a final wages check work in concert with severance pay? In our discussion about a “hard date” he mentioned that he “might” give me severance pay, but I know from the past that if he does he will want to pay it weekly instead of in a lump sum. Will he still need to payout my unused vacation immediately on my last work day, or can he kick it down to road to the last severance check date?
Thank you for any help you can provide!
I have a couple of questions.
Some background: I’ve worked for a small business for over 20 years. Basically, it’s just been me and the owner, with a rotating cast of admin assts. Over the years. At one point I left for about a year, and he asked me back because he could not find anyone who could do everything I did to his satisfaction. At that time, he offered me a part of the business to be discussed; along with some other perqs to get me to come back. I did come back. I never got anything in writing. I know he is starting to think about retiring, and so for the last year I’ve been trying to get him to commit to anything. Nope – not gonna happen. I’m resigned to the fact that promises are worth the paper they are written on, though I feel really stupid.
My questions have made him uncomfortable, and things have been going even more downhill. I’ve continued to do my job to the best of my ability despite his suddenly making every single job more difficult by being infinitely more demanding. It’s clear that he wants me gone. Things boiled over earlier this week, and I’m so tired of the
environment. I asked for his co-operation in looking for another job by giving me a good reference. He responded by asking me for a hard date when I would be out. I told him that’s not what I had in mind – that I had planned on continuing to work until I found something else. He’s not having it; he is letting me go on a date that he set. I get that he can do that, and again I’m resigned to that.
As with every story, there is a lot more, but I think that’s all the important stuff. My questions are these:
1.) Did I quit? Or is he laying me off? Firing me? When I asked for his reference I didn’t intend it as quitting, but I’m not sure of the EDD perspective. Unemployment will probably be needed for a time, so I’m worried about this.
2.) How does a final wages check work in concert with severance pay? In our discussion about a “hard date” he mentioned that he “might” give me severance pay, but I know from the past that if he does he will want to pay it weekly instead of in a lump sum. Will he still need to payout my unused vacation immediately on my last work day, or can he kick it down to road to the last severance check date?
Thank you for any help you can provide!