yarnaholic1963
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Texas
Married for 5 1/2 years
Ex filed over 60 days ago
My soon-to-be-ex and I are TRYING to come to an agreement regarding division of assets without going to court . Four years ago (after we'd been married for about a year and a half) I sold the house I'd been living in for 10 years before I met my ex and took the proceeds from the sale of the house and paid cash for a condo (about $45K at the time, now valued to be about 60K per the tax assessor). I had my ex sign a post nuptial agreement stating that if we should ever divorce, he would not go after my condo, however 4 years later I am unable to find it. So far, he has agreed not to go after the condo, but now that we've hit a wall regarding other joint assets, I'm wondering if we should end up having to go to court to let a judge decide, would the judge still consider the condo community property if he should pursue it? My attorney is aware of the condo, but she was rushed when we met and didn't really tell me regarding what she thought about the possibility of me losing it. Apparently this is family law dead week in the state of Texas so she has been unavailable to answer questions, but I will meet with her about this when dead week is over. Until then, I'm hoping to get some advice, as I've been a nervous wreck about this. My question is, should I agree to let go of the issues that he won't budge on so that I don't have to worry about losing my condo or would a judge award me the condo?
Thanks in advance!
Married for 5 1/2 years
Ex filed over 60 days ago
My soon-to-be-ex and I are TRYING to come to an agreement regarding division of assets without going to court . Four years ago (after we'd been married for about a year and a half) I sold the house I'd been living in for 10 years before I met my ex and took the proceeds from the sale of the house and paid cash for a condo (about $45K at the time, now valued to be about 60K per the tax assessor). I had my ex sign a post nuptial agreement stating that if we should ever divorce, he would not go after my condo, however 4 years later I am unable to find it. So far, he has agreed not to go after the condo, but now that we've hit a wall regarding other joint assets, I'm wondering if we should end up having to go to court to let a judge decide, would the judge still consider the condo community property if he should pursue it? My attorney is aware of the condo, but she was rushed when we met and didn't really tell me regarding what she thought about the possibility of me losing it. Apparently this is family law dead week in the state of Texas so she has been unavailable to answer questions, but I will meet with her about this when dead week is over. Until then, I'm hoping to get some advice, as I've been a nervous wreck about this. My question is, should I agree to let go of the issues that he won't budge on so that I don't have to worry about losing my condo or would a judge award me the condo?
Thanks in advance!