Not sure where to post but gonna start here.....Automobile Ownership

[quincy]

Thanks everyone for your support. It means a lot.

As of right now, we are not speaking to each other. We spoke briefly in text messages where I told him in no uncertain terms that I would NOT be signing over the title of my car. I have spoken to you guys, a law enforcement friend, as well as others (not that I told him that), and I just CANNOT take that chance. He's upset with me because he feels I do not trust him and I trust my ex husband more.

What he would not listen to is that I do not trust my ex husband, HOWEVER, I DO trust the divorce decree that states when my car is paid off, he must mail the title to me.

So, whatever he decides to do, I'm NOT signing over my title. It's too much of a risk that I can NOT afford. It's just not worth it.

I truly believe that it is not the $40 that he wants to save, it is actually the control of me he wants to gain and he can do that if he owns my car. NOT GONNA HAPPEN!

Your decision, and how you researched to come to that decision, was smart.

It sounds as if your fiancé is not comfortable with a smart woman.

We all appreciate the thanks, georgia_girl, so thanks.

 

[Zigner]

If you not giving away your stuff makes the two of you not talk to each other, then good riddance.

 

[georgia_girl328]

Thanks yall! I appreciate it. Right now he is in the tantrum phase threatening to leave in order to guilt trip me into giving him what he wants. Not happening. I appreciate the help and the kind words because I sure needed them.

I seem to have difficulty listening to my gut feelings and seek validation to feel secure. I need to stop that. But nonetheless, your opinions and support helped me very much and I am grateful!

 

[LdiJ]

Thanks yall! I appreciate it. Right now he is in the tantrum phase threatening to leave in order to guilt trip me into giving him what he wants. Not happening. I appreciate the help and the kind words because I sure needed them.

I seem to have difficulty listening to my gut feelings and seek validation to feel secure. I need to stop that. But nonetheless, your opinions and support helped me very much and I am grateful!

You go girl...you do not need validation from anybody. Trust yourself and your instincts!