Thanks for the responses. Glad I didn't accuse the attorney of anything now knowing that there is no proof of a conflict. I have a few more questions.
Do we have any rights to see any/all emails or information about any correspondence the defense attorney has with the prosecutor related to these cases? Do we have a right to know when these conversations take place, how long they last, and what is discussed? If the attorney was charging by the hour I'm assuming he would document everything but maybe not with a flat fee agreement. I'm concerned that the lawyer doesn't really care and is putting minimal effort into these cases. My cousin met with him once for an hour to go over everything a couple of months ago and he said the lawyer just googled the stalking law, skimmed it over, skimmed over the evidence and then said that he would just say that my cousin did it because he wanted to see his daughter and would ask for a deferred sentence (probation and expungement). The prosecutor is refusing to offer expungement. I believe there are many holes in the case and an attorney that really knew the stalking law and took the time to go over every word of the evidence could find them.
The lawyer seems to be pressuring us to take the deal and I assumed the deal would be in writing and we could take some time to review it. The flat fee agreement means that he already got his money and every minute he spends on the case is money out of his pocket so it's in his best interest to just get the case out of the way. The lawyer also pressured us to sign another fee agreement for a trial when the next court date is 3 weeks away. The breaking to protection order case from 2016 is a pre-trial hearing but the stalking and breaking the bond cases are only in the disposition hearing phase. Not seeing the urgency. I don't like the "global solution" strategy this attorney is using by lumping all the cases together. He originally said that the breaking the protection order case from 2016 would likely be dropped since they don't even have the text message. Now he's saying that the prosecutor is doing us a favor by offering to drop it with a guilty plea for the stalking case. If the 2016 case is so weak why doesn't the attorney just negotiate it as a separate case and get it dropped? Anyway, I politely told him that I am unhappy with how this has been handled by him so far so we would not hire him to represent my cousin at a trial. My cousin and the attorney were on speaker phone and my cousin later said that the lawyer seemed nervous and started shaking when I said that. The lawyer said that he will not take offense to that and said that he thinks my cousin will likely be convicted on all charges so he understands why we wouldn't want to hire him (he's been telling us for months that the 2016 case would likely be dropped since they don't have the text and the breaking the bond case is weak since they don't have the actual email that was sent, just a print out). I don't think I would hire a lawyer for a flat fee again.
The attorney said that if he provided anything in writing summarizing the deal it would be an email from the prosecutor. I asked the lawyer how he knows the prosecutor will argue for probation with a guilty plea if there is nothing forcing him to do it in writing and he said that it would affect their personal relationship. That's not good enough for me since I don't really care about their personal relationship. What if they hated each other? The prosecutor could say that he would ask for probation and then ask for 4 years in prison in front of the judge and there would be no recourse.
If the attorney provides the email that says the prosecutor is ok with probation then can we use that later if my cousin ends up being convicted to show that the prosecution doesn't think this crime is worthy of prison time? Like I said, the family doesn't want him to be charged at all but if they are put on the stand and they walk back some of the statements they made to police they could be exposed. I don't think they thought he would be charged with a felony, maybe some misdemeanors which I think would be more appropriate (harassment, etc.) and was hoping the lawyer would be able to negotiate the charges down. Heck, they tried to charge my cousin with reckless endangerment for allegedly running his ex-girlfriend off the road and that would have only been a misdemeanor (my cousin says he just drove next to her and tried to get her to pull over to talk about his daugher, he wouldn't try to hurt the mother of his child). They dropped that charge but that is 1 of 2 incidents they are still using in the felony stalking case (law requires 2 incidents that cause serious emotional distress). The family would most likely ask for a weak sentence to the judge as well so I don't think we should take the deal to plead guilty knowing that even if he's convicted we will have the prosecution already saying that probation was appropriate and the family telling the judge that they don't want a prison sentence.