Leon Kennedy
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What is the name of your state? PA.
Hello. I moved to PA from NC to be with my girlfriend a couple of months ago. My gf owns her house, but it is on her father's property. Her, I, and the kids were sitting outside one day and he came up on his ATV and stated that he googled my name (he used one of those incorrect sites that are all over the internet) and that I had 9 felonies, and had a kid and a woman living in my house in NC, and accused me of having a criminal record in front of my gf, the kids, and his wife. He then stated I had to be off of his property or he was going to have me arrested for trespassing. This obviously caused problems between my gf and I as I had to prove to the best of my ability that he was lying. I showed her on the official NC website that has public criminal records that my name is not in the system. I've never been arrested, or even handcuffed. I however cannot prove that no one is living in my house without literally driving her to NC and letting her see for herself. I had to leave, and she left with me as he is verbally abusive to her and to her kids. She reported him CYS and they agreed that she did the best thing by leaving and getting away from him. I had to leave my computer there, as I didn't have time to pack it up, and I have lost a substantial amount of time programming a game I have been working on for 3 years of my life. We are now homeless due to his false accusations, and had to seek help from the local government assistance. They put us in a hotel for 30 days, and we have been looking for a place to rent every day, but can find nothing. We are all stressed to the extreme due to our situation and it has caused major problems in our relationship. My gf informed me last night that one of her "friends" had told her that he googled my name as well and informed her (falsley) that I have a criminal record, and that I also have a warrant for my arrest. This has caused even more problems between my gf and I. I am completely innocent of these accusations from these fake sites, and have proved it, and can continue to prove it, but with people constantly buzzing lies in her ear it's piling stress on top of stress. I have told her to inform her father and her "friend" to meet me at the courthouse and I will show them a copy of my record, but they refuse to do so as they think they are right. I have anxiety and depression, and this has gotten to the point that I'm having to defend myself and my name on a daily basis, and my gf is constantly suspicious of me due to the actions and lies of these people.
Any advice and help would be appreciated.
On a side note, I can't get my computer because he will charge me with trespassing, and she can't get it because it's too heavy for her, resulting in more days of lost work on my programming.
Hello. I moved to PA from NC to be with my girlfriend a couple of months ago. My gf owns her house, but it is on her father's property. Her, I, and the kids were sitting outside one day and he came up on his ATV and stated that he googled my name (he used one of those incorrect sites that are all over the internet) and that I had 9 felonies, and had a kid and a woman living in my house in NC, and accused me of having a criminal record in front of my gf, the kids, and his wife. He then stated I had to be off of his property or he was going to have me arrested for trespassing. This obviously caused problems between my gf and I as I had to prove to the best of my ability that he was lying. I showed her on the official NC website that has public criminal records that my name is not in the system. I've never been arrested, or even handcuffed. I however cannot prove that no one is living in my house without literally driving her to NC and letting her see for herself. I had to leave, and she left with me as he is verbally abusive to her and to her kids. She reported him CYS and they agreed that she did the best thing by leaving and getting away from him. I had to leave my computer there, as I didn't have time to pack it up, and I have lost a substantial amount of time programming a game I have been working on for 3 years of my life. We are now homeless due to his false accusations, and had to seek help from the local government assistance. They put us in a hotel for 30 days, and we have been looking for a place to rent every day, but can find nothing. We are all stressed to the extreme due to our situation and it has caused major problems in our relationship. My gf informed me last night that one of her "friends" had told her that he googled my name as well and informed her (falsley) that I have a criminal record, and that I also have a warrant for my arrest. This has caused even more problems between my gf and I. I am completely innocent of these accusations from these fake sites, and have proved it, and can continue to prove it, but with people constantly buzzing lies in her ear it's piling stress on top of stress. I have told her to inform her father and her "friend" to meet me at the courthouse and I will show them a copy of my record, but they refuse to do so as they think they are right. I have anxiety and depression, and this has gotten to the point that I'm having to defend myself and my name on a daily basis, and my gf is constantly suspicious of me due to the actions and lies of these people.
Any advice and help would be appreciated.
On a side note, I can't get my computer because he will charge me with trespassing, and she can't get it because it's too heavy for her, resulting in more days of lost work on my programming.