I caught my apartment magnager having an affair with my boyfriend in my apartment on recording. What can i do about this?

[quincy]

I don't blame her. It's bad enough to have sex with another's boyfriend...to do it in her own home is vile.

I agree. Both the manager and the boyfriend behaved badly.

 

[laurakaye]

He doesn't live here he was over for the weekend he doesn't have a key I just left him here while I worked early Sunday morning.

He doesn't live here he was over for the weekend he doesn't have a key I just left him here while I worked early Sunday morning.

You left your boyfriend at your apartment. He let the manager in. Why is it the manager's fault? Your boyfriend is the one who owes you loyalty.

 

[quincy]

You left your boyfriend at your apartment. He let the manager in. Why is it the manager's fault? Your boyfriend is the one who owes you loyalty.

It might be human nature to blame the "other" woman/man?

To blame your partner is, in a way, also blaming yourself (e.g., there is something wrong with you if your partner cheats; you are a poor judge of character if your partner cheats ...).

It is so much easier on the ego to blame the other person.

 

[Spot84]

It is a voice recording not a video and it was located in the hallway in between the living area and bedrooms. But my apartment is small so it covers the entire area. Very clear.

 

[quincy]

It is a voice recording not a video and it was located in the hallway in between the living area and bedrooms. But my apartment is small so it covers the entire area. Very clear.

Thanks for the clarification.

Your options remain as already mentioned.

Good luck.