I understand you have your opinion and i respect that. Im seeking help with my current situation though. The kids know her and ask to speak with her. Thats already done and established. You "replied" to the question i asked, but didnt answer.
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They would get to my home the same way i get to theirs. Bus and train. Im starting to wonder if youre being a bit biased in some of the replies. Inconvenience on mom? Shed travel after work JUST like i travel after work. Everything would actually be equal if we did it that way. Im actually making things convenient for her currently by her not having to travel at all considering its me thats doing it... After work mind you.
What your teaching these children is that it is okay to date when you're married. You're teaching them to start a new relationship without finishing the first. You're being a bad parental example.
I probably shouldt have said "cant"
You're question was answered...several times. The much needed parenting advice is on the house.
If she has an order from the court that you can chat with GFs in her home via phone or video chat you could A) lose the right to be in her home B) be found in contempt of court and face pretty much whatever the judge sees.
I'm confused about how he picks up his daughters and gets them to his ex-wife's house, let alone getting him to his house.
This isn't a bias in favor of mom...this is a bias against the parent who believes that it's great to get the kids involved in a relationship with their new bed buddy.
To be quite candid, I am a little biased against you, but only because you are insisting on talking to your girlfriend while in mom's home. I would be equally biased against mom if she were talking to her boyfriend while in your home.
Although separated, you are correct. The relationship IS finished, just not technically, so again, youre correct. I dont feel im being a bad parental example overall(maybe in the marriage/separation/divorce aspect), but respect your opinion.
Please dont do that. I didnt mention all aspects of my current relationship, but please dont assume we are bed buddies if you dont know the full dynamic. Thanks in advance.
A few months ago, she took the kids on a play date with another man and his 2 kids. I didnt know about it until one of my daughters accidentally let it lip out when i asked what they did over the weekend, lol. He wasnt a boyfriend though. They were interested in each other/had an attraction, but were not boyfriend/girlfriend. That was actually the first time my girls seen or heard of the guy. I was a bit upset about that. My current girlfriend has NOT yet been around my daughters. Only spoke to her on the phone and video chats via THEIR requests. I do feel its a bit different because they are getting to know her before actually meeting her in person. I told their mother about her as well and let her know that she(my gf) will be around, so i want the girls to get used to her.
You are legally married to the mother of your children. The fact that you are not only dating someone else but have them chat with your children will be seen no better by the court than it has been here.