How can I prove where my ex lives?

[LdiJ]

Our first custody agreement happened when my son was 6 months old. He's now 3 and a half. There's your change of circumstance.

That is not a change in circumstance from a legal perspective.

We are both working new jobs and have different incomes than the first time around.

Not a change in circumstance for a custody change. It would perhaps be a change in circumstance for a recalculation of child support.

My ex was awarded custody. She is pretending like shes living with our son and raising him at her parents home but, due to her social media we know that she is living and working an hour and a half away with her boyfriend and our son is being raised by her parents.

That is possibly your change in circumstance, but if the grandparents immediately bring her back, it might not be a lasting change in circumstance.

it is NOT ok for her to have left our son with her parents while keeping him from me.

She IS NOT keeping the child from you. You are receiving your court ordered time. She would only be keeping the child from you if you were being denied your court ordered parenting time.

 

[stealth2]

I suspect that, as soon as OP files for custody, Mom either returns to her parents' home or gets her own place.

 

[Zigner]

...I do have all of the info on the boyfriend printed and ready to go.

Can you elaborate on that? How did you obtain the information? How do you plan to prove that it is accurate? Do you know if it is even admissible in court?

 

[not2cleverRed]

Can you elaborate on that? How did you obtain the information? How do you plan to prove that it is accurate? Do you know if it is even admissible in court?

Based on his responses to my previous posts, I suspect that it's not, and that OP doesn't understand the importance of that.