WaterboyMikey
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I live in Texas and my wife works for an insurance agent that has said sexually explicit things to her for some time now. He has made reference to how nice her breasts look in her dress, made comments about his genitalia, asked her for explicit pictures of herself, offered her money to see her breasts, admitted to the office that he received oral sex from a previous employee, told her that she was next to be in his bed, told her to wear something nice for him and said "you know how I like you". Most of these were done through text message, which I still have. This is an office with only 3 employees and they all discuss personal things with each other and everyone is really close in that aspect, which is understandable. She has thick skin and isn't easily offended, so she laughed it off in most cases. Once I found out about it, it caused a lot of strain in our marriage and put her in an uncomfortable position to ask him to stop. She informed him that his actions were going to cause her to get divorced if he continued to act this way. I even emailed him asking him to stop and he replied that he understood where I was coming from and that he would be strictly professional from now on. He just told me this to shut me up because he continued to do it the very next day. She hid it from me because for the first time in her life she was making really good money and worked in a place where she had the freedom to take off work whenever she wanted and she didn't want to jeopardize her job and be know around the office as the snitch. Once I found out that he had not stopped, I told her that she had to find work elsewhere if she wanted to save her marriage because I wouldn't tolerate it any longer. She emailed him a resignation later claiming that she was quitting immediately due to a hostile work environment. She never heard from him again. We agreed to not pursue a lawsuit to avoid any public exposure since we live in a small town and her boss is also the Mayor of this town. The problem is that she was denied unemployment benefits and now a lawsuit may be the only way to cover the lost wages. I am curious what her options are since there are less than 15 employees? Or since he is an agent for a large insurance company, does she count as an employee of the insurance agency itself even though she is on his payroll?