Mom and I share joint custody and equal parenting time per court order. Her and I have one son together, he is 14. She has two other children with her husband.
When we split up (12 years ago), she tried to move with him. The parenting evaluation when our son was school age recommended maintaining equal parenting time based on her moving back to our town and us living in the same town. The court order aligns with this.
She has moved an hour and half away now that one of her other children is school age. She still owns the house in our town to satisfy the court order but has been renting the house out on Air BNB.
Recently Mom has been renting the house during her parenting time and having our son stay in a hotel with his grandfather. I have offered to have our son stay with me if her house is not available to him but she did not reply. Also, her side of the family has been trying to persuade him to move to the other house / neighborhood.
When it's not rented during her parenting time, our son explains to me that his grandparents are there but she is rarely around during the school week since his sister started school near the other house and that he goes to the other house on the weekend when with Mom.
THE QUESTIONS:
Is any of this considered a "change in circumstance" or legitimate grounds to request a change to our schedule and parenting time?
Will any of this make a legitimate case to request right of first refusal?
Mom informed our son that the house will be rented when he goes back to her this week, he asked her to not rent it out since she promised she would not during the school year and explained that he will call me to pick him up if it is rented. Of course I want to support him since he should not be in a hotel but I also want to follow the rules / order. How can I protect myself when this happens?
When we split up (12 years ago), she tried to move with him. The parenting evaluation when our son was school age recommended maintaining equal parenting time based on her moving back to our town and us living in the same town. The court order aligns with this.
She has moved an hour and half away now that one of her other children is school age. She still owns the house in our town to satisfy the court order but has been renting the house out on Air BNB.
Recently Mom has been renting the house during her parenting time and having our son stay in a hotel with his grandfather. I have offered to have our son stay with me if her house is not available to him but she did not reply. Also, her side of the family has been trying to persuade him to move to the other house / neighborhood.
When it's not rented during her parenting time, our son explains to me that his grandparents are there but she is rarely around during the school week since his sister started school near the other house and that he goes to the other house on the weekend when with Mom.
THE QUESTIONS:
Is any of this considered a "change in circumstance" or legitimate grounds to request a change to our schedule and parenting time?
Will any of this make a legitimate case to request right of first refusal?
Mom informed our son that the house will be rented when he goes back to her this week, he asked her to not rent it out since she promised she would not during the school year and explained that he will call me to pick him up if it is rented. Of course I want to support him since he should not be in a hotel but I also want to follow the rules / order. How can I protect myself when this happens?
