New Jersey
My mother was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's at the age of 58. My father was already passed away so myself and my 2 sisters cared for her as long as we could (4 years). In that time she forgot who we were, who she was, and became violent if she did not get her way. We managed though with the help of an adult daycare and an aid for 2 hours a day 4 days a week. As it progressed and she became more unpredictable and violent we had decided we could not handle her on our own anymore and it would be safer for us to place her in a home...or so we thought.
We did our research and found a home that had a lot of long term staff and we liked the place and moved mom in. We would visit twice a week, and just 2 months in we got the call that she was being transferred to a hospital because she had a fever that would not lower. A few days go by and she gets sepsis. Sepsis then turns to her lungs being filled and having pneumonia. Now at this point this is our mother who does not know how to dress herself, eat on her own or practice regular hygiene alone. We were told by the hospital she had a 20% chance of recovery and that if we were to try to save her we would have to do invasive surgeries. As a family we agreed it would be more humane instead of doing all this just to have her back to square 1 of not knowing what is going on. To transfer her to hospice and make her as comfortable as possible.
The cause of all this ended up being an untreated UTI...a uti. We took care of her for 4 years and never came close to a uti, and yet a trained medical staff in 2 months transferred her to her death bed. I'm just curious how often does something like this happen, and is there any neglect on there part for not identifying the uti before it got to sepsis? Is there a case against the home or since we opted for the hospice ultimately they would just argue she could have recovered?
My mother was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's at the age of 58. My father was already passed away so myself and my 2 sisters cared for her as long as we could (4 years). In that time she forgot who we were, who she was, and became violent if she did not get her way. We managed though with the help of an adult daycare and an aid for 2 hours a day 4 days a week. As it progressed and she became more unpredictable and violent we had decided we could not handle her on our own anymore and it would be safer for us to place her in a home...or so we thought.
We did our research and found a home that had a lot of long term staff and we liked the place and moved mom in. We would visit twice a week, and just 2 months in we got the call that she was being transferred to a hospital because she had a fever that would not lower. A few days go by and she gets sepsis. Sepsis then turns to her lungs being filled and having pneumonia. Now at this point this is our mother who does not know how to dress herself, eat on her own or practice regular hygiene alone. We were told by the hospital she had a 20% chance of recovery and that if we were to try to save her we would have to do invasive surgeries. As a family we agreed it would be more humane instead of doing all this just to have her back to square 1 of not knowing what is going on. To transfer her to hospice and make her as comfortable as possible.
The cause of all this ended up being an untreated UTI...a uti. We took care of her for 4 years and never came close to a uti, and yet a trained medical staff in 2 months transferred her to her death bed. I'm just curious how often does something like this happen, and is there any neglect on there part for not identifying the uti before it got to sepsis? Is there a case against the home or since we opted for the hospice ultimately they would just argue she could have recovered?