Just bought a house a little over a year ago, first home purchase.
The house is in my name only, my common law wife is not on the mortgage or the title (as her credit was non-qual for the loan). We've been together common law for like 20 years, she has very rarely ever contributed financially and really not even to the home, which is always a mess, unkept and won't even make her son meals most time it's on me or my daughter (over 18) to do it. I work full time, self employed. She has her own possessions and I would give her one of the cars. My concern is custody of our 12 year old son and ownership of the house, which is my only big possession I care about. She was diagnosed with M.S. about 5 years ago but could not get disability, as they found her capable of working, although she refuses to and refuses to contribute much to the household, citing that she has fatigue and is depressed and can't get a job. Disability denied her because, other than some numbness in her feet she is able bodied. She talks like she will take the house and move her new online boyfriend in here! I need some help here! Next step, rights as far as property, etc! Thanks very much. State is Colorado.
Just a side note also, she has in the past tried to claim that she is being abused, I am absolutely truthful when I tell you she is not, she truly has almost no real responsibilities as when the topic is brought up, she will go on tirades and tantrums about how me and the kids are trying to control her, etc, etc....Which is not the case, we just wanted more in terms of contribution to the household.
Thanks, sorry for long post.
The house is in my name only, my common law wife is not on the mortgage or the title (as her credit was non-qual for the loan). We've been together common law for like 20 years, she has very rarely ever contributed financially and really not even to the home, which is always a mess, unkept and won't even make her son meals most time it's on me or my daughter (over 18) to do it. I work full time, self employed. She has her own possessions and I would give her one of the cars. My concern is custody of our 12 year old son and ownership of the house, which is my only big possession I care about. She was diagnosed with M.S. about 5 years ago but could not get disability, as they found her capable of working, although she refuses to and refuses to contribute much to the household, citing that she has fatigue and is depressed and can't get a job. Disability denied her because, other than some numbness in her feet she is able bodied. She talks like she will take the house and move her new online boyfriend in here! I need some help here! Next step, rights as far as property, etc! Thanks very much. State is Colorado.
Just a side note also, she has in the past tried to claim that she is being abused, I am absolutely truthful when I tell you she is not, she truly has almost no real responsibilities as when the topic is brought up, she will go on tirades and tantrums about how me and the kids are trying to control her, etc, etc....Which is not the case, we just wanted more in terms of contribution to the household.
Thanks, sorry for long post.