It has been a steady decline, predating the diagnosis by probably 5-6 years. She had a few cashier type jobs for a year or two and worked as a visiting CNA type helper for the elderly for a short time, maybe a couple months doing that. She just decided to quit these jobs abruptly. The last job was 4 years ago approximately. As far as childcare, the last 10 years have been bad, bare minimum or less. I've just been putting up with it I suppose, as life is always busy and so is work, except lately!Approx when did she stop contributing to the marriage financially and stop parenting/caring for your child?