I responded to the email but wondering what to do here because I don't think she will stop the email chain until i absolutely truly agree to all her demands.
My question is if I get another email from her with GAL cced should I respond back or should I just state something like I have already said what I wanted to.
I just don't want to look like both of us cannot agree on simple things because we do. I think she's somehow trying to create this issue to somehow tell the GAL that i cannot work with her so she should get more time with the kids and not me.
That would be a valid assumption. She wants to paint a picture of herself as the super parent, and you as the useless Dad.
Your version is that you're working from home and taking care of the kids, overseeing them at school, feeding them, etc. - all the things a SAHParent does.
Her version is that you're working from home and using the TV/electronics as a babysitter, barely keeping the kids alive. Why, you even turned the thermostat down to 70F once. (LOL. Mine only goes up to 65F. Somehow, my child survived.)
If she's going to cc the GAL, then reply all. Keep it short, simple, and civil. It can be as simple as, "I would like to wait for the GAL's decision, before making more changes to the kid's established routine." Although, frankly, the GAL is not going to be happy to have their times wasted with petty squabbles.
Give your lawyer a heads up that there's shenanigans going on.
DO request as part of the parenting plan that all parental communications goes through whatever service/app that the local courts prefer, so that they are in a form that's court admissible.
You might consider a right of first refusal clause - that you get the option of caring for the kids (more parenting time) over others. Especially since she's going to expect that you share in the daycare costs.
The kids are staying home with me. She goes to work and we live under the same roof for now.
I am glad that you are finally mentioning this in the thread.
Mom has been trying to paint the picture that she is the primary caretaker because she tucks them in at night in a house that you BOTH live in. THAT is why she wants you to agree to take the kids out of E-school and put them into daycare.