What is the name of your state? VA
Probably not the most appropriate question to ask on this forum, but thought I'd ask.
Lawyer blew threw a $7,500 retainer and total expense so far is $9,500....so I have a $2,000 balance. So far we just got our discovery answered.
My divorce should be pretty simple. I'm a pharmacist, husband a dentist, but we make roughly the same amount after my bonuses. Married six years, no kids, no one filed for fault, one home that we both put more or less the same amount.... essentially can literally split everything down the middle. But my husband has a lawyer, and thought I'd get one because I don't want to deal with it and make sure it's done correctly, but my lawyer is not working for me and I'm in the process of finding another.
-Charged $2,000 to 'in the process of creating a protective order for you'. Email back and fourth with him ask him what a protective order is and why he thinks I need one, he doesn't answer either question. Says once he's done he'll show it to me. Saw the $2,000 bill and emailed him and told him I don't want a protective order and you shouldn't do things (especially $2,000 things) without first asking me. He agreed to remove the charge after I complained. But it's the same story again and again.
-He's charged $2,500 so far for deposition questions. Have literally told him the day I met him that I didn't need depositions or anything like that. He's at least three times sent me drafts of deposition questions he's made and tells me to add to the list and every time I remind him I do NOT want depositions. He's never removed the charged, but I haven't asked him to either.
-Husband tells me his lawyer "was" a nice guy and a straight shooter, but my lawyer is trying to convince his lawyer into doing a discovery (husband doesn't want one, and quite frankly if I knew what I know now, I would have stopped my lawyer from doing one) -and- my lawyer is telling his lawyer to do depositions. Basically my husband thinks my lawyer is telling his lawyer "these folks have money and you are dumb if you don't let it drag out", which is what I feel also.
-Lawyer charged me 4.5 hours to review my husband's response to my discovery yet when I email him and ask him what he found, he can not answer it and asks me if I want to set up a meeting (i.e. take more money from me). The thing is there is literally nothing in my husband's discovery answers, like I said the discovery was pointless and my lawyer probably wanted me to come in and mention some other useless things I don't need.
I paid the $7,500 retainer on a credit card, technically I can dispute it with the card, but I am willing to let it go. But I don't want to pay the $2,000 balance. Problem with my lawyer is he does things that I do not need and without asking me, just to bill me and when I tell him I do not want that, we get into long emails "I think you need it", "let me do it then you will see" which just results in more billing and he doesn't answer questions like what it is (I end up google'ing it) and why I need it.
I plan on sending a termination letter to my lawyer, and obviously he'll be upset and probably not remove the deposition questions tab from my balance. Main concern is how will he transfer over to my new lawyer if there is a balance
Probably not the most appropriate question to ask on this forum, but thought I'd ask.
Lawyer blew threw a $7,500 retainer and total expense so far is $9,500....so I have a $2,000 balance. So far we just got our discovery answered.
My divorce should be pretty simple. I'm a pharmacist, husband a dentist, but we make roughly the same amount after my bonuses. Married six years, no kids, no one filed for fault, one home that we both put more or less the same amount.... essentially can literally split everything down the middle. But my husband has a lawyer, and thought I'd get one because I don't want to deal with it and make sure it's done correctly, but my lawyer is not working for me and I'm in the process of finding another.
-Charged $2,000 to 'in the process of creating a protective order for you'. Email back and fourth with him ask him what a protective order is and why he thinks I need one, he doesn't answer either question. Says once he's done he'll show it to me. Saw the $2,000 bill and emailed him and told him I don't want a protective order and you shouldn't do things (especially $2,000 things) without first asking me. He agreed to remove the charge after I complained. But it's the same story again and again.
-He's charged $2,500 so far for deposition questions. Have literally told him the day I met him that I didn't need depositions or anything like that. He's at least three times sent me drafts of deposition questions he's made and tells me to add to the list and every time I remind him I do NOT want depositions. He's never removed the charged, but I haven't asked him to either.
-Husband tells me his lawyer "was" a nice guy and a straight shooter, but my lawyer is trying to convince his lawyer into doing a discovery (husband doesn't want one, and quite frankly if I knew what I know now, I would have stopped my lawyer from doing one) -and- my lawyer is telling his lawyer to do depositions. Basically my husband thinks my lawyer is telling his lawyer "these folks have money and you are dumb if you don't let it drag out", which is what I feel also.
-Lawyer charged me 4.5 hours to review my husband's response to my discovery yet when I email him and ask him what he found, he can not answer it and asks me if I want to set up a meeting (i.e. take more money from me). The thing is there is literally nothing in my husband's discovery answers, like I said the discovery was pointless and my lawyer probably wanted me to come in and mention some other useless things I don't need.
I paid the $7,500 retainer on a credit card, technically I can dispute it with the card, but I am willing to let it go. But I don't want to pay the $2,000 balance. Problem with my lawyer is he does things that I do not need and without asking me, just to bill me and when I tell him I do not want that, we get into long emails "I think you need it", "let me do it then you will see" which just results in more billing and he doesn't answer questions like what it is (I end up google'ing it) and why I need it.
I plan on sending a termination letter to my lawyer, and obviously he'll be upset and probably not remove the deposition questions tab from my balance. Main concern is how will he transfer over to my new lawyer if there is a balance
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