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Common sense tells me that she is able to seek employment anywhere she likes. That's how i was going to proceed. The only thing i thought about was to pre-emptively tell HR that I am concerned about a possible hostile work environment. However, I would have to wait until she starts working...
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The EX and I had a contentious divorce. Throughout such, she claimed to be scared of me. However, there has never been any police involvement or DV, at least not on my part. She made her whole case framing me as mentally unstable and dangerous. All of these were false allegations...
If any of you have divorced a Cluster B person, then you understand.
A couple months ago, kiddo was recovering from a lung infection. Kiddo was a little fussy at an exchange. The EX screamed at me in front of kiddo that "this is your fault, look what you're dong to your daughter! This is why...
I do that already. As I previously posted, he reported that I always use solution focused methods. I think that by only hearing my side, of one matter, you can’t appreciate my EX’s unreasonable ways.
we had to do mediation before we could proceed with trial. I wanted 50/50. EX wanted me...
EX picks up kiddo at my house by 8:00am already. She drives her 15 minutes further to drop off at her family.
My mother lives with me.
school starts at 0830
I agree. I have not done so. Ever. She had done it to me at every opportunity.
As far as logistics and fairness, EX would be able to to drop off’s at either school. She would not be able to do pick ups at either school. She would use her family for pick ups. She works 9-5.
I would be able...
That’s what I’m trying to figure out. Your insight is very helpful.
I was weighing whether or not I could show past instances of where I have been considerate and reasonable , whereas the EX has not.
I can show where she has flat out lied in her Motions, how she tried to eliminate me from...
She works 10 miles from her school, 12 miles from my school.
There is not going to be a hardship for school transportation. That was true for your family, but that won’t be true for mine. I’m not going to make that a central part of my case because EX will say she had family to help Her out...
We both use family to help when we are working. so assume there is no hardship in getting kiddo to school. EX does work 9-5 hours. I work hours that vary during the first shift time frame, but alway less than 40 hours per week. I have a great job.
I would be available for after school...
Thanks for all the great replies, everyone.
D4 won’t start school until Fall 2021. I will be making the case that I have provided stability by remaining in the marital home, while EX’s instability could be a wild card.
I have great passion for learning. I was a straight A student in college...
Yes, I do have the State School Report Card for each school.
I also have the teaching methods from my school district-- how the students are supported; and what systems are in place to both remediate those who fall behind as well as encourage those who excel.
No, we are not birds nesting. EX moved out when kiddo was 18 months. I didn't mean to insinuate that D4 spends every night in my home. All of my parenting time has been in the marital home.
I'm not dwelling on anything. I already know that my EX will never agree to anything I suggest. I'm asking for advice/strategy on how to prepare for a hearing for school district selection.
The response you quoted was my question to LD when she repeatedly suggested I just give in to EX's...
We have a 2-2-5-5 schedule.
In your family's case, how was one school proven to be better than the other?
It is worth noting that even in your own story, someone gave in to the other, so as to be reasonable, but they still ended up in Court.
No, I'm not looking for a pat on the back. I'm asking on what data to collect for a hearing. So, for anyone who has experience with such, I'd like to hear your advice.
I've come to every hearing with loads of evidence. I like to be prepared. I've listed factors in my favor in earlier posts.
My EX testified at Trial that I am a "bad father" because I show up to kiddo's activities, even when it's not my parenting day. Does that sound like a reasonable person?
My EX testified that I should have every other Saturday and Sunday supervised parenting time, with no weekday time, because...
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