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That's not stalking. I ask how she's doing and if she needs anything, that's all. I'll go with a real lawyers advice and continue to show that I care and am available using text that can be brought to court. But yeah keeping a child from their father is ok
I am leaving mom alone, but I'm also showing that I want to be there which is evidence in court that I did not abandon them, I'm here and willing but mom doesn't want me to be. We don't talk but I still ask her if she's doing ok or needs anything. She doesn't get those messages because I'm...
Yes I have a safe and nice home to provide a good life. I do have full benefits from my job so insurances are no issue for me, mom has Medicaid. I did speak with a lawyer and he said all I can do is file for paternity once I find out baby is born (probably through the grapevine). Also gave me a...
Being prepared and thinking of options is controlling? Like I said many times, I'm just thinking. Not making demands. Of course it's a mutual agreement that needs to be made or the court will make one for us. I'm ok with that. I honestly don't see how I'm being controlling when I'm a victim of...
How? Like I said this was in no way a demand and I'm just wondering if the timeframe is normal when a young child is involved. I'm seeking advice from a third party (here) as a way if talking about it with people that have no bias.
I'm keeping this to myself for now but I'm trying to think of what I want for custody, after confirming paternity. I'm looking for feed back as to if you think this is fair. Mom plans to breast feed.
(Keep in mind this is just a thought)
Mom and dad share 50/50 on decisions for baby. No moving...
I am trying and hoping things will pan out. I'm just scared that's all, and want to be prepared for the worst. I'm getting my ducks in a row, I'm preparing for whatever situation presents itself. While I am hoping for the best.
Actually the last time we talked mom had said that, "now we are going to be bring a child into this world and dragging her through hell because we can't get along."
To which I responded, " If you want to drag our child through hell then that is totally on you. I want to work together and get...
So in NH just one of the many things taken in consideration is that it's in the "best interest of the child to be in the care of a parent that wants both parents in the child's life". This makes perfect sense to me, as I fear that at this point mom will be brainwashing daughter to be against me...
One thing that has been bothering me is that when she assualted me, I should not have had to press charges. The state should have. I know if I had been the one that hit her then I would have been going to jail that night. Instead the police asked me to leave my own home, the officer said I...
So in a scenario where my child has already been born and the mother will not let me see the baby, I go to court and file paternity with DNA test and they rule I am the father. Then what's next? Given the information that she has assualted me (police were involved, I filed a report and she...
I never cheated or treated her badly, she just fell out of love with me when she got pregnant. In fact it was a rollercoaster, one minute planning the future together then the next minute screaming and throwing things. Possibly hormones pushed her away, I'm not sure but we tried therapy but it...
You're right! I hope she will be that cautious. But she has 2 roommates, I live alone. I really wish she would come to my house for a while in separate rooms for the safety of our child. But we are far from that right now. I will keep my hopes up. After all, she does talk with my father. That...
I was under the impression that we could both sign an acknowledgement of paternity. I was hoping for that.
As far as being there in the room, you are right. It's impossible at this point but I'd like to see my child as soon as possible.
I'm gathering that unless we both can come to agreement...
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