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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      My message says I WILL WORK WITH YOU WHATEVER YOU DECIDE. If he wants to take them to Alaska, I'm fine with it. Whatever he wants. Why would you assume that I'm not fine with it would be my question? If you thought my message sounds controlling, I suggest you check your own control issues...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      Also, which one is it? Am I an overprotective, clingy mother? Or am I begging him to take the kids? I can't be both, can I?
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      I would certainly BEG him to take it if I could. But he will do what he wants. Please see my pasted OFW message. I basically outlined all of the choices after discussing it with a nurse. I also made it clear that I would work with him whatever choice he made. I also offered to GIVE him...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      Here is the EXACT message that was sent to him (minus his state) I'm sure some of will find fault with it. But I basically outlined his choices and allowed HIM to choose. The boys are anxious to see you. Let’s determine the plan for their transportation soon. My sister in law who is a nurse...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      And if I came on here and said I thought it was better that he NOT see the kids during the pandemic, I would be viewed in this forum as wanting to keep the kids from him.
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      ...also, I'm going to be REAL here...because I know this man, and none of you know me or him. The fact that he hasn't re-upped OFW, in my opinion, has more to do with the idea that he really doesn't WANT the kids right now. When he's ready to get them, he will "get" the money (he borrows his...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      //What *I* would be more interested in securing is an order regarding transportation for him exercising his time. Given that he has created the distance, he should be responsible for arranging/paying for it. Now. That could change when you relocate. If your move adds to his current...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      Again, my kids attended camp when they were with him. I wrote them letters and did not expect phone calls on the schedule while they were there.
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      Thanks to those who agree with OFW. There are reasons that I did not bring up that necessitated OFW. It didn't seem necessary in my original post to give you every detail of our long history. None of those issues really bear weight in the current question that I posted which was, how can I...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      Thanks. Not sure what is unreasonable? Me calling the kids three times a week during the summer? Or me wanting Dad to abide by the parenting plan and communicate through OFW? Or is it that I believe he should live in the state that he signed the agreement in, abiding by the same rules that I...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      Thank you. The kids did go to camp two years ago and did not call me and that was fine. We communicated via old fashioned mail, like most kids at camp do. Again, Dad came up with the schedule. I am happy to be flexible. Your kids...your schedule. This schedule was agreed to and signed by...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      Hi. Thanks. I've considered it. I do not want to provide my children phones at this time. My primary issue is not telephone communication with the children. I use OFW to record any issues with lack of telephonic access to children, but it is not my primary issue. My primary issue is the...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      Thank you. The children are 11 and 12 (just turned 11 and 12). They do not have their own phones. Dad may contact the children any time he wants. He usually does not call them. The 12-year-old usually asks to call Dad, which is also, always allowed. At the time of mediation, he did not...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      Just a note in case anyone else does have this issue. I found a Fee Waiver application for Our Family Wizard. I sent it to him. He hasn't said that his issue is financial...but OFW will waive his fees if he is on government assistance, etc. The application was available on their website...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      We have it written out in the final judgement that I will call during the summer on Monday, Wednesday and Friday at a specific time. If he needs to change the time, he can send a message through OFW to change it. During other times (not summer), I will call once during a 3 day...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      One kid just turned 11, one kid just turned 12. They do not have their own phones. Summer phone calls are on a set schedule in the parenting plan (included in final judgement). They are Monday, Wednesday and Friday at a specific time (I requested it this way because we have had issues in the...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      Thanks. Just going to wait until we have jobs, a place to live elsewhere before beginning a relocation case. A long-distance visitation plan like what you stated above is basically how he sees the kids now. So it would be basically no change, except for the rare weekend when he is in town and...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      I get what you're asking. Perhaps reliable isn't the correct word. Peaceful? When they are with him over the summer, I will often call multiple days in a row and get no answer. With OFW, I send a note saying, "I called xxx day and didn't get an answer, please have the kids call me when they...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      Yeah. I hate going to court. Ugh. But I guess if things don't improve, I will have to reopen it and modify our existing agreement. Thanks. In the meantime, if he decides to pick up the kids for his summer visit and doesn't have OFW by the time he picks them up, I will pay for his so that...
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      How to notify court of noncompliance

      I've considered paying the OFW, but at this point, I have the kids full time, I pay all the medical, dental, etc. He pays nothing and doesn't exercise visitation. It feels like he has zero responsibility. Still...I agree. $119 is nothing. But also, x8 more years of parenting, it does add up...

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