katinmaine
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What is the name of your state? Maine
Ok to make a Very Long Story short, Grandmother stole Husbands Daughter and even admits to it...His mother...Yes HIS mother, set it up with Husbands Ex to get custody of Husbands daughter, His mother was always very mean to him and His mother could not except the fact that her son Could take care of his daughter but his sisters could not take care of their children so His mother set it up with his Ex, and His sisters to send him out of town on a fake job, and while he was gone His ex went to his sisters and took his daughter. His ex had, had nothing really to do with either of her children, and was supposed to have supervised visits and was not to take his daughter anymore then 20 miles from his house. His mother had approuched His Ex a month before this and had it all set up, Even had his ex sign gaurdianship paper, but for it to take affect both parents signatures needed to be on that paper, so when husband got home and found out his ex had his daughter, he was petrified for the safty of his daughter, His ex was then seeing a known pediphile, he called the cops they said there was nothing they could do, it was a civil matter that had to be taken to court, Then it so Happenes That His Mother has these papers that could get his daughter back as soon as they were signed, so on the understanding that he would have his daughter back and home safely, he signed them, His mother swearing that shed give him his daughter back, Well the papers were signed and that was the end of that, she wouldnt give her back. He was devistated, He went on drunken binge and before he new it, that was the end, he lost his job and then the court ordered him to have a job and a stable home for 6 months, well he went on a year drunk, thought that hed never get his daughter back, Well its been three years now, we have a child of our own and my husband hasnt had a drink in three years. But the trouble now is bad, his mother hates him and is using his daughter against him every chance she can. My husband is disabled and also has a brain tumor, also he is in the process (along with 10 of his cousins) and working with the police to get his mothers Brother behind bars for molestation, He brother has molested alot of the children in the family, and it happened to him when he was eight, he took it to his mother at the time but she made him be quiet about it, and he has for 24 years until this past spring a detective contacted him and now he and many family members are working to get this guy in prison, so now his mother is trying to get him to drop the case by with holding visitation from his daughter and making it very difficult, ive already lost 2 jobs because, of her. I would get a call at work from my husband saying "we got to take my daughter home now my mother just called and if we dont have her home in an hour then shes going to call the cops". Bosses just dont like his employees getting up in the middle of a work day and leaving. But im at my last straw and we want custody, She has my husbands ex living with her, who is supposed to have limited and suppervised visits. I need to know what we need to do to terminate her gaurdianship. This is also Hurting His daughter, shes not allowed to go to my parents anymore who she loves dearly. she says to us "mammie says I'll be in trouble if i go to grammie and grampa's" Or "mammie says im not to listen to you cuz your not to tell me what to do" or "mammies says That baby brother is only my Half Brother and I shouldnt love him".. This is really hurting this girl, SHe used to be so loving and caring and now shes indifferent to all of us, she says she dont like comming there because she always gets in trouble with mammie, Please any advice would help, we dont know what to do and cant afford a lawyer, we was told to get a Guardian Ad Litem but cant afford that either.
Ok to make a Very Long Story short, Grandmother stole Husbands Daughter and even admits to it...His mother...Yes HIS mother, set it up with Husbands Ex to get custody of Husbands daughter, His mother was always very mean to him and His mother could not except the fact that her son Could take care of his daughter but his sisters could not take care of their children so His mother set it up with his Ex, and His sisters to send him out of town on a fake job, and while he was gone His ex went to his sisters and took his daughter. His ex had, had nothing really to do with either of her children, and was supposed to have supervised visits and was not to take his daughter anymore then 20 miles from his house. His mother had approuched His Ex a month before this and had it all set up, Even had his ex sign gaurdianship paper, but for it to take affect both parents signatures needed to be on that paper, so when husband got home and found out his ex had his daughter, he was petrified for the safty of his daughter, His ex was then seeing a known pediphile, he called the cops they said there was nothing they could do, it was a civil matter that had to be taken to court, Then it so Happenes That His Mother has these papers that could get his daughter back as soon as they were signed, so on the understanding that he would have his daughter back and home safely, he signed them, His mother swearing that shed give him his daughter back, Well the papers were signed and that was the end of that, she wouldnt give her back. He was devistated, He went on drunken binge and before he new it, that was the end, he lost his job and then the court ordered him to have a job and a stable home for 6 months, well he went on a year drunk, thought that hed never get his daughter back, Well its been three years now, we have a child of our own and my husband hasnt had a drink in three years. But the trouble now is bad, his mother hates him and is using his daughter against him every chance she can. My husband is disabled and also has a brain tumor, also he is in the process (along with 10 of his cousins) and working with the police to get his mothers Brother behind bars for molestation, He brother has molested alot of the children in the family, and it happened to him when he was eight, he took it to his mother at the time but she made him be quiet about it, and he has for 24 years until this past spring a detective contacted him and now he and many family members are working to get this guy in prison, so now his mother is trying to get him to drop the case by with holding visitation from his daughter and making it very difficult, ive already lost 2 jobs because, of her. I would get a call at work from my husband saying "we got to take my daughter home now my mother just called and if we dont have her home in an hour then shes going to call the cops". Bosses just dont like his employees getting up in the middle of a work day and leaving. But im at my last straw and we want custody, She has my husbands ex living with her, who is supposed to have limited and suppervised visits. I need to know what we need to do to terminate her gaurdianship. This is also Hurting His daughter, shes not allowed to go to my parents anymore who she loves dearly. she says to us "mammie says I'll be in trouble if i go to grammie and grampa's" Or "mammie says im not to listen to you cuz your not to tell me what to do" or "mammies says That baby brother is only my Half Brother and I shouldnt love him".. This is really hurting this girl, SHe used to be so loving and caring and now shes indifferent to all of us, she says she dont like comming there because she always gets in trouble with mammie, Please any advice would help, we dont know what to do and cant afford a lawyer, we was told to get a Guardian Ad Litem but cant afford that either.