DreamDancer
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Illinois.
A close friend is the agent for his elderly neighbor. She has been in a nursing home for a number of years. He maintains her house, car, accounts, pays all bills, etc.
Recently he was talking with her during a visit about buying a house. She offered him the down payment. He didn't think that anything needed to be signed so he thanked her and told her it was a loan, not a gift.
Background on situation with POA:
Lady has zero living relatives. He is her sole caretaker. He has always viewed her as a mother figure and treated her as such which is why she trusts him. He borrowed money one time in all these years but repayed it (small amount, was an emergency situation and it was repaid in a timely manner). He also declared bankruptsy instead of asking her for help when he had serious problems due to ex-wife. This a the type of person he is and relationship they have. He has never taken advantage of her. She has no will.
She no longer remembers the conversation and he has signed a contract to purchase a home. Can he still borrow the down payment for the house? Will he get into trouble in doing so? He doesn't want to do anything illegal but he now is obligated by this contract. She is extremely well off and financially, nothing in her estate will come close to suffering. Her care is top notch and he makes sure she has everything she could possibly need plus some. He also visits her several times a week.
Thank you for any advice you can give.
A close friend is the agent for his elderly neighbor. She has been in a nursing home for a number of years. He maintains her house, car, accounts, pays all bills, etc.
Recently he was talking with her during a visit about buying a house. She offered him the down payment. He didn't think that anything needed to be signed so he thanked her and told her it was a loan, not a gift.
Background on situation with POA:
Lady has zero living relatives. He is her sole caretaker. He has always viewed her as a mother figure and treated her as such which is why she trusts him. He borrowed money one time in all these years but repayed it (small amount, was an emergency situation and it was repaid in a timely manner). He also declared bankruptsy instead of asking her for help when he had serious problems due to ex-wife. This a the type of person he is and relationship they have. He has never taken advantage of her. She has no will.
She no longer remembers the conversation and he has signed a contract to purchase a home. Can he still borrow the down payment for the house? Will he get into trouble in doing so? He doesn't want to do anything illegal but he now is obligated by this contract. She is extremely well off and financially, nothing in her estate will come close to suffering. Her care is top notch and he makes sure she has everything she could possibly need plus some. He also visits her several times a week.
Thank you for any advice you can give.