14 y/o girl and 19 y/o boy in MD

[kurohasu]

What is your secret, what made you suicidal?
You think of Matt as a mentor?
Do you have a youth pasotor or group leader you can talk to?

What made me suicidal was when my best friend told me she hated me, in short. I don't know what i think of matt as, he has been nearly everythink to me at one point in time or another. No, I don't not have another person to talk to, this is something i am very careful with, i only tell people if i feel sure i can trust them, and i don't trust my youth leader.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Can you talk to your pastor?

 

[seniorjudge]

I will repeat my self only once: I am NOT going to have sex with this guy. He doesn't even want to sleep with me, not after what happened to his brother

Then tell your auntie or a trusted female adult about this relationship. You need guidance, not legal advice.

Do it today...as soon as you read this message, okay?

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Here is a list of numbers in your state just call the one closest to your area, they can help you find someone to talk to that you can trust. That will also take some of the strain off Matt.
National Hopeline Network
* 1-800-SUICIDE
1-800-784-2433
Toll-Free in the U.S.
24 hours / 7 days

BALTIMORE
First Step
Youth Services Center
www.firststepmd.com
* (410) 521-3800

BALTIMORE
Suicide Prevention Hotline
Baltimore Crisis Response
* (410) 752-2272

COLUMBIA
Serving Howard County &
Central Maryland
Grassroots Crisis Intervention
http://grassrootscrisis.org/
24 hours / 7 days
* Crisis Hotline
(410) 531-6677
* Maryland Youth Crisis Hotline
1-800-422-0009
* TDD Line - Hearing Impaired
(410) 531-5086

FREDERICK
Serving Frederick County
Frederick County Hotline
http://www.fcmha.org/hotline.htm
24 hours / 7 days
* Crisis Hotline
(301) 662-2255
* Maryland Youth Crisis Hotline
1-800-422-0009
* Local Youth Crisis Hotline
(301) 695-5683
For the Youth of Allegany, Frederick, Garrett & Washington Counties
* Home Alone Phone Friend for Kids
(301) 694-8255
* Parent Stress Line
(301) 662-2255
* Senior Reassurance Program
(301) 663-0011

GLEN BURNIE
Serving Baltimore County
Suicide Prevention Hotline
Baltimore County Crisis Response
* (410) 931-2214

HYATTSVILLE
Serving Anne Arundel, Calvert, Charles, Montgomery, Prince George's & St. Mary's Counties

Prince George's County Hotline
& Suicide Prevention Center
Community Crisis Services
http://www.communitycrisis.org/
24 hours / 7 days
* Suicide Hotline
(301) 864-7130
.
* Maryland Youth Crisis Hotline
1-800-422-0009
Toll-free Statewide
.
* General Crisis and Referral Line
(301) 864-7161
.
* Prince George's County Crisis Response System
(301) 927-4500
.
* Post Partum Depression Hotline
1-800-PPD-MOMS
1-800-773-6667
.
* All Lines TDD Capable

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1-800-SUICIDE
1-800-784-5433
National Hopeline Network

HYATTSVILLE

Serving Baltimore County
Suicide Prevention Hotline
Baltimore County Crisis Response
* (410) 931-2214

ROCKVILLE
Serving Montgomery County
Montgomery County Hotline
Montgomery County
Mental Health Association
24 hours / 7 days
* (240) 777-4000
* (240) 777-4815 TTY

11/1/04

SALISBURY
Crisis Lines
LIfe Crisis Center
* (410) 749-4357(HELP)
* (410) 749-4363

COLLEGE STUDENTS
Counseling Centers & Crisis Lines
For Your College or University

What if the
Hotline Phone Number
for my local area
is no good ??



* Call 1-800-SUICIDE / 1-800-784-2433.
.
* Call numbers in your state, even if they are outside your city or county.
.
* Some of the 800, 888 or 877 numbers are toll-free in the entire state.
.
* Visit the USA National page of this site for toll free National hotlines.
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* Call 411 and ask for:
* Dial 0 and ask for:
* Check the FRONT pages of the phone book for:
o suicide prevention
o crisis intervention
o hotlines - crisis or suicide
o community crisis center
o county mental health center
o hospital mental health clinic
.
* Or, call 911 and ask for help. Tell them you are in suicidal danger.

 

[kurohasu]

Thanks for your help, it wasn't exactly what i was looking for, but never the less, I think it'll be useful

 

[seniorjudge]

Thanks for your help, it wasn't exactly what i was looking for, but never the less, I think it'll be useful

Tell us what you were looking for.

rmet4nzkx has done an extraordinary amount of work for you. She cares about what happens to you.

Don't let her down.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Thanks for your help, it wasn't exactly what i was looking for, but never the less, I think it'll be useful

It will be because they are always there on the phone to talk and have lots of referals to help, people you can trust, let us know if it helps

 

[kurohasu]

Tell us what you were looking for.

I was just looking for advice reguarding what should be done between me and matt, but you both gave me something much more valuble... advice reguarding how to help my life, something that (hopefully) will last much longer than my current relationship.

 

[seniorjudge]

"I was just looking for advice reguarding what should be done between me and matt, but you both gave me something much more valuble... advice reguarding how to help my life, something that (hopefully) will last much longer than my current relationship."

rmet4nzkx is the good guy here.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Tell us what you were looking for.

I was just looking for advice reguarding what should be done between me and matt, but you both gave me something much more valuble... advice reguarding how to help my life, something that (hopefully) will last much longer than my current relationship.

You are not abnormal,you are younique a 14 year old who listens, now make up proud Make Matt proud

 

[rmet4nzkx]

"I was just looking for advice reguarding what should be done between me and matt, but you both gave me something much more valuble... advice reguarding how to help my life, something that (hopefully) will last much longer than my current relationship."

rmet4nzkx is the good guy here.

I'm gonna cry

 

[kurohasu]

You are not abnormal,you are younique a 14 year old who listens, now make up proud Make Matt proud

Unique is one word for it... and I'll try my best to make you proud, after all, I hate disappointing people.

 

[Wolflmg]

Kido, your 14, sneaking around with a 19, soon to be 20 year old male. Do you have any idea how much trouble he could get into, he's over 18, your still a minor. It is wrong for you to be together, ilegal. Now it might be a little different if he's being a big brother type figure to you, but that's not the case.
I have a 13 year old sister, and I would never allow her to be hanging out alone, with a 19 year old male.
Talk to your parents, let them know what going on. Becuase if you don't things could get a lot worse. And whatever happened to you, you need to tell a family member, so they can understand what's going on.
Don't keep things locked up all inside, because if you do, you'll end up doing it your whole life, and trust me that's not somehting you want to do.

 

[thelizzy]

What made me suicidal was when my best friend told me she hated me, in short. I don't know what i think of matt as, he has been nearly everythink to me at one point in time or another. No, I don't not have another person to talk to, this is something i am very careful with, i only tell people if i feel sure i can trust them, and i don't trust my youth leader.

THAT made you suicidal?
Sweetie... I'm going to be bluntly honest here. There are going to many many more much rougher times for you than a 12 year old girl telling you that she hates you.
Please seek help for your depression and self-esteem issues before you end up just another statistic.

 

[Wolflmg]

THAT made you suicidal?
Sweetie... I'm going to be bluntly honest here. There are going to many many more much rougher times for you than a 12 year old girl telling you that she hates you.
Please seek help for your depression and self-esteem issues before you end up just another statistic.

Something tells me she not being fully honest about what happened. I think theres a lot more that happened then she told us.