LOL...good one.well...ok. but i still drive myself nuts babbling.
and casa, i always take notes on your input.
i have wondered about if your point on the children assisting on court costs if they throw the fits was appropriate.
I'm from the Family of Thought that teenagers don't get to make legal decisions...and darn it, they have to listen to their parents or have consequences. (I'm a Mean Ol' Mom)