Thanks nextwife. i kinda agree after thinking about it. I probaby should of taken her. It just made me mad after what she did on sat. I have a answering machine message from a couple of weeks ago on it she was addressing my wife and asking if she could drop our daughter tha night. Bcuz she knew I was at work. I hope i can use this if the ex decides to make my wifes involvement with our kids an issue.