401K saga continues forever...

[Torakki]

One last shot!

Since my curent account statmentshave been requested by the other side, I've decided to ask for the statments from her accounts that show the withdraws or disbursments that she is claiming occured during marriage. Advice needed here: Should I submit mine or agree to give mine for hers? (and I know, her's don't exist). Then let the court decide. I can't imagine a judge would rule in her favor after she attempted to hide assets from marriage. Can anyone?

 

[mistoffolees]

If there's a court order for you to turn over documents, you have to do it. "I'll do it when she does it" might be OK for Kindergarten, but not with the courts.

Let the court punish her for not complying with the subpoena. You want to be the one who complies fully.

 

[Torakki]

At this point, there is no court order to turn over anything. It's a request from her attorny for me to turn over my recent statments so thy can do a final calculation on what I owe her from my accounts. But based on the two calculation rules, there is aproximatly a $10K difference that I would owe her when even the qdro accountant says the "other" calculation is more accurate. Also, she is still hidding $47K that would offset what I owe by quite a bit. This may be peanuts to some but it will have me working till I'm dead to take that kind of hit. I don't make much money and lucky to be working. Also, How can I get the court to punish her (award me some kind of break, jail time) for frudulantly hiding these accounts? Would it be the District attorny? She's lied so much in court, (falsified documents, purged herself) she should have been lead out of there in handcuffs.
Anyway, I'm sure I'm going to submit my statments to the accountant, as requested, just as I always have.
Thanks for the response. They've all help out greatly.

 

[mistoffolees]

At this point, there is no court order to turn over anything. It's a request from her attorny for me to turn over my recent statments so thy can do a final calculation on what I owe her from my accounts. But based on the two calculation rules, there is aproximatly a $10K difference that I would owe her when even the qdro accountant says the "other" calculation is more accurate. Also, she is still hidding $47K that would offset what I owe by quite a bit. This may be peanuts to some but it will have me working till I'm dead to take that kind of hit. I don't make much money and lucky to be working. Also, How can I get the court to punish her (award me some kind of break, jail time) for frudulantly hiding these accounts? Would it be the District attorny? She's lied so much in court, (falsified documents, purged herself) she should have been lead out of there in handcuffs.
Anyway, I'm sure I'm going to submit my statments to the accountant, as requested, just as I always have.
Thanks for the response. They've all help out greatly.

The DA is not going to get involved.

If you have evidence that she has been hiding assets from the court, you ask the court to consider that in dividing the marital property.