7 yr old emotionally distraught over visitation

[penelope10]

So they are not.
Experience is a something that no one can beat.

And tell me your expertice in psychology?

The OP has been asked what the counselor has said in regards to this.

You can "feel" all you want about children's rights. In fact, I invite you to contact a senator in your state to discuss these matters.

Your feelings are just fluff. They serve no good purpose. In fact, if the OP followed what your feelings are, she might end up getting herself in some real legal trouble.

The fact of the matter is that Dad has legally set up visitations. If the child is having problems regarding the visitation, then his/her counselor may be able to shed some light into what needs to be done. Thus changing visitation from a traumatic experience to one that is enjoyable for child.

 

[proud_parent]

Experience is a something that no one can beat.

No one except opposing counsel?

And tell me your expertice in psychology?

I can't speak for the others, but my degree in psychology (with research emphasis in child cognitive development and teaching emphasis in experimental methods) is from a major university consistently ranked among the top Psychology PhD programs in the United States.

Degree or no degree, your "contributions" would not be entirely pointless if you offered even one bit of practical, constructive advice as to what the original poster might do in HER situation.

Your posts to the Family Law forums have thus far run to 'this isn't fair', 'I don't think parents should do that' and 'what is this world coming to?'.

You are entitled to these opinions.
If you have nothing helpful to add, however, in future please keep them to yourself.

 

[penelope10]

No one except opposing counsel?



I can't speak for the others, but my degree in psychology (with research emphasis in child cognitive development and teaching emphasis in experimental methods) is from a major university consistently ranked among the top Psychology PhD programs in the United States.

Degree or no degree, your "contributions" would not be entirely pointless if you offered even one bit of practical, constructive advice as to what the original poster might do in HER situation.

Your posts to the Family Law forums have thus far run to 'this isn't fair', 'I don't think parents should do that' and 'what is this world coming to?'.

You are entitled to these opinions.
If you have nothing helpful to add, however, in future please keep them to yourself.

And if she doesn't like the laws she can go to through the channels to have the laws changed.This is not the correct place to do it. I would hate to think of someone who is not familiar with current law following her "feelings" and thus end up getting into a legal mess.

 

[tanja53]

The OP has been asked what the counselor has said in regards to this.

You can "feel" all you want about children's rights. In fact, I invite you to contact a senator in your state to discuss these matters.

Your feelings are just fluff. They serve no good purpose. In fact, if the OP followed what your feelings are, she might end up getting herself in some real legal trouble.

The fact of the matter is that Dad has legally set up visitations. If the child is having problems regarding the visitation, then his/her counselor may be able to shed some light into what needs to be done. Thus changing visitation from a traumatic experience to one that is enjoyable for child.

I really hope so for the sake of the child.
And I hope that the dad wakes up from a being so lost about his daughter.
There is a whole generation of over ruled kids all over the world because of ignorent laws.

And yes I am a mom and a grandmother.
But also a person who has to deal with emotional stress from a lot of this kind of issues.

 

[tanja53]

No one except opposing counsel?



I can't speak for the others, but my degree in psychology (with research emphasis in child cognitive development and teaching emphasis in experimental methods) is from a major university consistently ranked among the top Psychology PhD programs in the United States.

Degree or no degree, your "contributions" would not be entirely pointless if you offered even one bit of practical, constructive advice as to what the original poster might do in HER situation.

Your posts to the Family Law forums have thus far run to 'this isn't fair', 'I don't think parents should do that' and 'what is this world coming to?'.

You are entitled to these opinions.
If you have nothing helpful to add, however, in future please keep them to yourself.

And I have raised 6 kids and one stepchild.
So I do have experience.
And I did a lot of child care to.
Plus I do have a lot of experience in counseling.
And my ex husband worked in psykaitry. He had a lot of grown ups traumatized from their childhood.

 

[Ohiogal]

I dont have to worry personally about the laws since I dont have under age kids.
So I cant get into "a legal mess".

And yes if I could I would change the laws big times.

Kids do grow up to be adults.
And I know a lot about childhood trauma . And that can follow you your whole life.

Children deserves bot the parents BUT some parents dont deserve their kids.

SHUT UP. This is a legal site. THE LAWS APPLY HERE. We don't care about your personal opinion. YOU are going to get banned.

 

[Just Blue]

And I have raised 6 kids and one stepchild.
So I do have experience.
And I did a lot of child care to.
Plus I do have a lot of experience in counseling.
And my ex husband worked in psykaitry. He had a lot of grown ups traumatized from their childhood.

Oh Dear God!

 

[Ohiogal]

And I have raised 6 kids and one stepchild.
So I do have experience.
And I did a lot of child care to.
Plus I do have a lot of experience in counseling.
And my ex husband worked in psykaitry. He had a lot of grown ups traumatized from their childhood.

You have no clue. Your child care experience has no bearing. QUIT RESPONDING TO POSTERS.

 

[proud_parent]

Oh Dear God!

In this poster's defense, English is not her first language.

Not that this makes her personal opinions any more relevant or useful to the OP...

 

[wileybunch]

There is a whole generation of over ruled kids all over the world because of ignorent laws.

Yes, there was, it's the generation that is now raising teens or are grandparents/greatgrandparents to teens. THIS generation of teens/children are not thought of as "over ruled" kids at all. You cannot be serious, you are completely on the WRONG end of that argument.

Why do you take this situation so personally? Have you had legal troubles for blocking a dad access to his child?

 

[ProSeDadinMD]

sounds like something more than the reasons you mention. But she has to go, if she is physically not going to get on a flight nothing more you can do, but hopefully that will not be an issue.

WHAT? With a "7 soon to be 8" year old child? Right, they are in charge.

Rubbish, if you let the kid choose, she will end up having no relationship with her dad.. I have seen it happen with my bf, his 7 yr old gets to choose when he wants to visit his Mum (who lives 5 mins away) and he has no relationship with her.

Make up your mind.

And I have raised 6 kids and one stepchild.
So I do have experience.
And I did a lot of child care to.
Plus I do have a lot of experience in counseling.
And my ex husband worked in psykaitry. He had a lot of grown ups traumatized from their childhood.

I'm scared. I hope you speak better than you write...

 

[stealth2]

I'm scared. I hope you speak better than you right...

*cough* Pot? There's a kettle I'd like you to meet...

 

[ProSeDadinMD]

*cough* Pot? There's a kettle I'd like you to meet...

Hey, I'm drinking. Cut me some slack.

BTW, I fixed it.

And, no, I don't communicate verbally any better than I do with the written word...

 

[profmum]

WHAT? With a "7 soon to be 8" year old child? Right, they are in charge.

I would love to see any airline allow a child to be physically forced on to a flight.. they kick you off these days if you are standing up for too long during the flight..!! simply not going to happen.. too litigious for the airline.

Make up your mind.
response to a different poster not OP..

 

[majomom1]

WHAT? With a "7 soon to be 8" year old child? Right, they are in charge.

I would love to see any airline allow a child to be physically forced on to a flight.. they kick you off these days if you are standing up for too long during the flight..!! simply not going to happen.. too litigious for the airline.

Make up your mind.
response to a different poster not OP..

Excuse me? They kick you off.... during the flight?

Are you drinking with ProSe tonight?