UPDATE 03/09/24
Thank you so much for all the time and advice. We have a response from legal aid and a process for relief.
All of you provide a great service and support.
Texas
Sorry for so many details.
20+ years ago, my mother co-signed my nephew's student loan for a small college. He went for two years as a pilot to learn more. The total of loans (5 noted on current paperwork even though she only comes co-signed one contract) was around $60K.
After the two years, my nephew joined the Air Force. My sister divorced his father so my nephew hasn't spoken to this side of the family for 17 years.
My mother received a notice from the state that he was on default. His Facebook showed him traveling the globe with a beer in every pic and he kept deferring the loan and wasn't paying on the debt. His father handled all his banking so it was a mess. I found his Commanding Officer and called him and explained the situation and that he could negotiate the debt and his grandmother cannot afford to pay it for him. The C O sent me an email a few days later stating my nephew understood his obligations and would begin payments. Because his father was still handling his banking several more were missed and the father begged me not to contact the C O again and he started paying.
Currently -
My mom/his grandmother is 85 and gets $1,200 monthly on SS. She and I bought her a condo together and it is paid for other than an equity loan and homestead in her name.
My nephew is 36 and a flight instructor at a state college with a wife who is a veterinarian. Still hasn't spoken to any of us.
Two weeks ago, my mother was served from the state and they are placing a judgement on her for $120K and want her to pay $1,700 monthly. She was told they placed a judgement on him also.
What do we do?
We can't afford an attorney and travel back and forth four hours one way to court.
Do any payments she could pay lower his responsibility?
His deferral decisions were never discussed with her even though she is responsible.
She was ready to sell her house, pay off the equity and we would split the profit for her to live on (reside with me or my sister) and my share would go into a retirement account. Now, we can't.
Can she transfer her half of the property to me?
We don't know what to do and the state legal aid office listed on the paperwork hasn't returned any calls.
Your assistance and advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much for all the time and advice. We have a response from legal aid and a process for relief.
All of you provide a great service and support.
Texas
Sorry for so many details.
20+ years ago, my mother co-signed my nephew's student loan for a small college. He went for two years as a pilot to learn more. The total of loans (5 noted on current paperwork even though she only comes co-signed one contract) was around $60K.
After the two years, my nephew joined the Air Force. My sister divorced his father so my nephew hasn't spoken to this side of the family for 17 years.
My mother received a notice from the state that he was on default. His Facebook showed him traveling the globe with a beer in every pic and he kept deferring the loan and wasn't paying on the debt. His father handled all his banking so it was a mess. I found his Commanding Officer and called him and explained the situation and that he could negotiate the debt and his grandmother cannot afford to pay it for him. The C O sent me an email a few days later stating my nephew understood his obligations and would begin payments. Because his father was still handling his banking several more were missed and the father begged me not to contact the C O again and he started paying.
Currently -
My mom/his grandmother is 85 and gets $1,200 monthly on SS. She and I bought her a condo together and it is paid for other than an equity loan and homestead in her name.
My nephew is 36 and a flight instructor at a state college with a wife who is a veterinarian. Still hasn't spoken to any of us.
Two weeks ago, my mother was served from the state and they are placing a judgement on her for $120K and want her to pay $1,700 monthly. She was told they placed a judgement on him also.
What do we do?
We can't afford an attorney and travel back and forth four hours one way to court.
Do any payments she could pay lower his responsibility?
His deferral decisions were never discussed with her even though she is responsible.
She was ready to sell her house, pay off the equity and we would split the profit for her to live on (reside with me or my sister) and my share would go into a retirement account. Now, we can't.
Can she transfer her half of the property to me?
We don't know what to do and the state legal aid office listed on the paperwork hasn't returned any calls.
Your assistance and advice would be greatly appreciated.
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