summerdawn
Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ca
I got this message on Facebook. This is weird and I don't even know if it is actually dad sending it or if it's SM or MIL-as far as I know dad doesn't even HAVE a FB, and mine has SM blocked so I don't know how a message came through from their computer if it IS from dad.
Mr. Binky T. Clown
[email protected]
***************************March 21, 2009
ATTN: Summer Dawn
Re: Matter of: Visitation
This Message is to inform you that I will be at the court ordered drop off area tomorrow on the 22, at 3:30 pm
I will be waiting for the kids at the curb in front of the arch way, I request that you stay by the arch way like we previously agreed upon, for it is in the court order that we have curb side pick up and drop off, which means that you do not approach the car and all communication be done before and after the pick up and drop off not during.
I think it would also be wise to point out, that after reading over the stipulation it says that I have the kids on every second and fourth Sunday, up to now we've been trading off every other Sunday, so I would like to switch it to how the order intended it, so I will have the kids on the 22 and you will have them on the 29 and 5th then I will have them on the 12th and 26th.
please be waiting at the court ordered area at 3:30 for the pick up and at 6:30 for the drop off, I will respect the curb side pick up order and not approach your house, their have been some occasions were when i've arrived you were not their so please be their at the appointed time,
I currently do not have a phone and I'm no longer receiving phone calls at the 867 5309 number so please don't try to contact me using that number unless for emergency purposes, so if you wish to contact me please e mail me at [email protected]
Thank you in advance
Sincerely,
Binky T. Clown
While I will be at the drop off area, I was going to go there at 1 because that is what time his visit begins, and if he wasn't at the drop off point by 1:30 I was going to go in and send him a certified letter stating the kids and I had waited for him from 1:00 until 1:30 and he did not show up.
Unfortunately our court order has nothing about forfeiting if late for visits [I am including it in the modification request] so I guess if I don't come out at 3:30 I will probably be in trouble. Does this message warrant a reply or should I just stay silent and be at the drop off at 3:30?
In other news, SM has taken to harassing my friends that she is mutual acquaintances with via FaceBook email/private message (such as dad's aunts and sisters in law that I have been friends with for over ten years). They are feeling quite awkward and the situation is really annoying. I have merely told my friends that I will not be putting anyone in the middle and I am sorry for the inconvenience of her angry emails, and that I will not be taking part in the drama.
I have had no contact with father [or MIL or SM] at all but for a certified letter I sent out on Monday letting him know we waited and he did not show up for his visit. I keep getting hang up calls a LOT though. I don't know for sure it is them, but I wasn't getting them before all this started. Dad knows I don't have caller ID so he could call day and night and I wouldn't know if it was him.
**I have my OSC almost ready to be filed this week. I have heard that in the state of California, as soon as you file for a family law court date they automatically send you to mediation. Is this true if we already have a court order, but are modifying it? I hope so, because it will get us face to face communicating with each other without SM's presence.
I got this message on Facebook. This is weird and I don't even know if it is actually dad sending it or if it's SM or MIL-as far as I know dad doesn't even HAVE a FB, and mine has SM blocked so I don't know how a message came through from their computer if it IS from dad.
Mr. Binky T. Clown
[email protected]
***************************March 21, 2009
ATTN: Summer Dawn
Re: Matter of: Visitation
This Message is to inform you that I will be at the court ordered drop off area tomorrow on the 22, at 3:30 pm
I will be waiting for the kids at the curb in front of the arch way, I request that you stay by the arch way like we previously agreed upon, for it is in the court order that we have curb side pick up and drop off, which means that you do not approach the car and all communication be done before and after the pick up and drop off not during.
I think it would also be wise to point out, that after reading over the stipulation it says that I have the kids on every second and fourth Sunday, up to now we've been trading off every other Sunday, so I would like to switch it to how the order intended it, so I will have the kids on the 22 and you will have them on the 29 and 5th then I will have them on the 12th and 26th.
please be waiting at the court ordered area at 3:30 for the pick up and at 6:30 for the drop off, I will respect the curb side pick up order and not approach your house, their have been some occasions were when i've arrived you were not their so please be their at the appointed time,
I currently do not have a phone and I'm no longer receiving phone calls at the 867 5309 number so please don't try to contact me using that number unless for emergency purposes, so if you wish to contact me please e mail me at [email protected]
Thank you in advance
Sincerely,
Binky T. Clown
While I will be at the drop off area, I was going to go there at 1 because that is what time his visit begins, and if he wasn't at the drop off point by 1:30 I was going to go in and send him a certified letter stating the kids and I had waited for him from 1:00 until 1:30 and he did not show up.
Unfortunately our court order has nothing about forfeiting if late for visits [I am including it in the modification request] so I guess if I don't come out at 3:30 I will probably be in trouble. Does this message warrant a reply or should I just stay silent and be at the drop off at 3:30?
In other news, SM has taken to harassing my friends that she is mutual acquaintances with via FaceBook email/private message (such as dad's aunts and sisters in law that I have been friends with for over ten years). They are feeling quite awkward and the situation is really annoying. I have merely told my friends that I will not be putting anyone in the middle and I am sorry for the inconvenience of her angry emails, and that I will not be taking part in the drama.
I have had no contact with father [or MIL or SM] at all but for a certified letter I sent out on Monday letting him know we waited and he did not show up for his visit. I keep getting hang up calls a LOT though. I don't know for sure it is them, but I wasn't getting them before all this started. Dad knows I don't have caller ID so he could call day and night and I wouldn't know if it was him.
**I have my OSC almost ready to be filed this week. I have heard that in the state of California, as soon as you file for a family law court date they automatically send you to mediation. Is this true if we already have a court order, but are modifying it? I hope so, because it will get us face to face communicating with each other without SM's presence.
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