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curious_cat

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What is the name of your state? California

I have a son, age 15. I have decided to make him "busy"... so that dad has to give us some visitation weekends. Busy = enrolling my boy in soccer. (never in sports before). Games are on Saturdays, dad lives 2hrs away - thus, dad would only have him Saturday night and bring him back Sunday at noon. This shaves off 24 hrs of visitation.
No court would deny me enrolling him into sports as I would make sure they viewed it as "in my son's best interest". My son will go along with this - he always does. Then when he is 16, his father will have to get used to not seeing him at all because my son will be working weekends and such... no court would stand it the way of my son trying to make a few extra bucks, right?

Obviously - I don't like my ex and have made sure I have alligned the child with me where his father is concerened over the years.

His father will naturally fight to see him through the courts when this all takes place... but I'm confident that the courts will side with me/my son as a part of growing up and through their ignorance (which I have witnessed time and time agian through the years) and cut dads visitation.

Child support should go up substantually once this takes place because dad will no longer have him every other weekend or for the 5 weeks in the summer do to a "busy teen life".

Will I need to file a motion for more support given the change in time shared with our son, or will the courts automatically do this once my EX files to keep orders as they are? (which won't be granted because my son's an eager beaver to make me happy.) I will ask for full support on based on the guideline child support... will there be any snags in getting this? Dad will fight that he is not willing to give up his time...thus why should he have to pay. The ex knows my game...the courts do not. They just assume I have no bitterness as my EX is going overboard.

Will the argument of dad saying he doesn't want to give up time effect the guideline support I should be awarded?
 


bononos

Senior Member
First, a court will not rule that extracurricular activities should take the place of a parents time.
Second, your reasons are for more money? Gosh...I can't even type the name that comes to mind...
 
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You are either actually be posting this, or you are a dad "posing" as a hypothetical Mom, trying to get a feel to what will happen when/if your ex pulls a stunt like this.
 
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curious_cat

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Yes Zephyr... very serious. It happens everyday in family court... the shocker to you may be that I'm being honest about it.
 

NotSoNew

Senior Member
your KIDDING!!!!!!!!

courts would NOT go along with this .. moms like you try to use this crap all the time, you are not allowed to schedule ANYTHING on dads time sweetheart!
 
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Zephyr

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curious_cat said:
Yes Zephyr... very serious. It happens everyday in family court... the shocker to you may be that I'm being honest about it.

well then, I will not help a selfish, self righteous bitch try to impede the relationship between parent and child


I hope the judge skins you in court


oh and BTW there will be snags you will hit in court :rolleyes:
 

curious_cat

Junior Member
bononoz... life sucks, no question about it. but the fact of the matter is - you are merely a number going through the family court system. "In the best interest of the child" got lost LONG before me. I see that, and capitolizing on that as best as I can.

I've seen judges/commissioners grant kids to play sports numerous times that interfer with the fathers/mothers weekends. the fact is they really do not care. Here in Riverside County... they turn you out like cattle!
 

ceara19

Senior Member
Does this child have the same father of your over 18 year old, whom apparently you feel you are owed back CS on?
 

mommyto4

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I have to agree this cant be a real post if it is I am so sad for this child to have a mother like this what a B***H
 

DelanaH

Member
Does the kid enjoy his time with his dad?

It feels to me like maybe you are just vindictive and you are trying to manipulate the poor kids mind. My lord he is 15 he is confused enough he doesn't need some psyco mom confusing him even more


These 2 comments are what makes me think you are manipulating the kid

"My son will go along with this - he always does."

"Which won't be granted because my son's an eager beaver to make me happy."
 

Zephyr

Senior Member
DelanaH said:
Does the kid enjoy his time with his dad?

It feels to me like maybe you are just vindictive and you are trying to manipulate the poor kids mind. My lord he is 15 he is confused enough he doesn't need some psyco mom confusing him even more


These 2 comments are what makes me think you are manipulating the kid

"My son will go along with this - he always does."

"Which won't be granted because my son's an eager beaver to make me happy."
I am wondering if there is some oedipus (so?) situation going on
:eek:



what an absolutely disgusting excuse for a mother.....
 
I'm telling you, this poster is either on her way to the loony bin... or is just a non custodial dad feeling helpless and trying to find out how his ex wife's behavior will be viewed by the courts.

If by some tiny chance this person is really a Mom, she should lose custody completely.
 

curious_cat

Junior Member
While hundreds of people each month come to this site trying to "back door" you into believing they are good, but really have my intentions. I thought I'd find some smarter people here.

I asked an honest question in my honest form... let me change user i.d's and change my story around so I can look like a victim... I suppose that will make it all better. Again... I come through the front door... at least respect that!
 
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