A question for the forum...

[curious_cat]

I must be a troll because I'm honest that I have bad intentions towards my ex??? Oh, you should be a therapist.

 

[NCP Dad in TN]

Are you seriously planning on going into court with that same honesty? Idiot. I HOPE you do so you lose your son to Dad. Sounds like he'd be better off with ANYONE but you.

 

[bononos]

I can't wait till this forum gets back on track.
Out of respect for the help I have received her, I will stick it out.
Ya think this clown showing up and this post are a coincidence?

 

[StickyFingers]

What is the name of your state? California

I have a son, age 15. I have decided to make him "busy"... so that dad has to give us some visitation weekends. Busy = enrolling my boy in soccer. (never in sports before). Games are on Saturdays, dad lives 2hrs away - thus, dad would only have him Saturday night and bring him back Sunday at noon. This shaves off 24 hrs of visitation.
No court would deny me enrolling him into sports as I would make sure they viewed it as "in my son's best interest". My son will go along with this - he always does. Then when he is 16, his father will have to get used to not seeing him at all because my son will be working weekends and such... no court would stand it the way of my son trying to make a few extra bucks, right?

Obviously - I don't like my ex and have made sure I have alligned the child with me where his father is concerened over the years.

His father will naturally fight to see him through the courts when this all takes place... but I'm confident that the courts will side with me/my son as a part of growing up and through their ignorance (which I have witnessed time and time agian through the years) and cut dads visitation.

Child support should go up substantually once this takes place because dad will no longer have him every other weekend or for the 5 weeks in the summer do to a "busy teen life".

Will I need to file a motion for more support given the change in time shared with our son, or will the courts automatically do this once my EX files to keep orders as they are? (which won't be granted because my son's an eager beaver to make me happy.) I will ask for full support on based on the guideline child support... will there be any snags in getting this? Dad will fight that he is not willing to give up his time...thus why should he have to pay. The ex knows my game...the courts do not. They just assume I have no bitterness as my EX is going overboard.

Will the argument of dad saying he doesn't want to give up time effect the guideline support I should be awarded?

Absolutely unbelievable!

My heart goes out to this poor child.

 

[curious_cat]

Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not a "troll". BUT... your reactions are the same as the court... no one can believe that people like me exist... therefore they dismiss my ex's allegations immediatley. You all have made my point for me. Thank you.

Trust me... I'm no stranger from being called names. But I am a stranger when it comes to losing in the court room. I'm sorry I've gagged all of you with a drop of truth... but thats reality. Ask my EX!!!!

 

[Mbarr77]

Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not a "troll". BUT... your reactions are the same as the court... no one can believe that people like me exist... therefore they dismiss my ex's allegations immediatley. You all have made my point for me. Thank you.

Trust me... I'm no stranger from being called names. But I am a stranger when it comes to losing in the court room. I'm sorry I've gagged all of you with a drop of truth... but thats reality. Ask my EX!!!!

It is not that we cannot believe you are truthful...We just cannot believe that you would be willing to take time away from your ex just so he can play soccer?!?!?!? You are really ridiculous!! Truth, or lie you are what you are...I am glad I do not have you as an ex!!!!

 

[Mbarr77]

What is the name of your state? California

I have a son, age 15. I have decided to make him "busy"... so that dad has to give us some visitation weekends. Busy = enrolling my boy in soccer. (never in sports before). Games are on Saturdays, dad lives 2hrs away - thus, dad would only have him Saturday night and bring him back Sunday at noon. This shaves off 24 hrs of visitation.
No court would deny me enrolling him into sports as I would make sure they viewed it as "in my son's best interest". My son will go along with this - he always does. Then when he is 16, his father will have to get used to not seeing him at all because my son will be working weekends and such... no court would stand it the way of my son trying to make a few extra bucks, right?

Obviously - I don't like my ex and have made sure I have alligned the child with me where his father is concerened over the years.

His father will naturally fight to see him through the courts when this all takes place... but I'm confident that the courts will side with me/my son as a part of growing up and through their ignorance (which I have witnessed time and time agian through the years) and cut dads visitation.

Child support should go up substantually once this takes place because dad will no longer have him every other weekend or for the 5 weeks in the summer do to a "busy teen life".

Will I need to file a motion for more support given the change in time shared with our son, or will the courts automatically do this once my EX files to keep orders as they are? (which won't be granted because my son's an eager beaver to make me happy.) I will ask for full support on based on the guideline child support... will there be any snags in getting this? Dad will fight that he is not willing to give up his time...thus why should he have to pay. The ex knows my game...the courts do not. They just assume I have no bitterness as my EX is going overboard.

Will the argument of dad saying he doesn't want to give up time effect the guideline support I should be awarded?

You really are a disgrace!!! This is why kids grow up hating there parents, and not having a normal healthy relationship with both parents

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

I think it is obvious that she lacks parenting skills, and has no class at all. Her children will see this eventually, as she cannot manipulate everyone.

 

[Happy Trails]

Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not a "troll". BUT... your reactions are the same as the court... no one can believe that people like me exist... therefore they dismiss my ex's allegations immediatley. You all have made my point for me. Thank you.

Trust me... I'm no stranger from being called names. But I am a stranger when it comes to losing in the court room. I'm sorry I've gagged all of you with a drop of truth... but thats reality. Ask my EX!!!!

Our reactions are different than what the courts action will be.

 

[CarrieT]

What is the name of your state? California

I have a son, age 15. I have decided to make him "busy"... so that dad has to give us some visitation weekends. Busy = enrolling my boy in soccer. (never in sports before). Games are on Saturdays, dad lives 2hrs away - thus, dad would only have him Saturday night and bring him back Sunday at noon. This shaves off 24 hrs of visitation.
No court would deny me enrolling him into sports as I would make sure they viewed it as "in my son's best interest". My son will go along with this - he always does. Then when he is 16, his father will have to get used to not seeing him at all because my son will be working weekends and such... no court would stand it the way of my son trying to make a few extra bucks, right?

Obviously - I don't like my ex and have made sure I have alligned the child with me where his father is concerened over the years.

QUOTE]

Setting aside your dislike of your ex...... What benefit is it to YOUR CHILD for him to be kept from HIS FATHER??
Carrie

 

[StickyFingers]

It is not that we cannot believe you are truthful...We just cannot believe that you would be willing to take time away from your ex just so he can play soccer?!?!?!? You are really ridiculous!! Truth, or lie you are what you are...I am glad I do not have you as an ex!!!!

From what I understood...She is going to enroll the child in soccer only to take time away from the father.

 

[wtk8j]

I think it is obvious that she lacks parenting skills, and has no class at all. Her children will see this eventually, as she cannot manipulate everyone.

I will ditto that!!!!!!

 

[DelanaH]

I asked this once and didn't get an answer**************.....Does the kid enjoy his time with his dad?

 

[Mbarr77]

From what I understood...She is going to enroll the child in soccer only to take time away from the father.

Right, but the court is going to want to know why she feels soccer could possibly be more important than time with the father!

 

[curious_cat]

the courts allow this EVERY DAY.... why be repulsed by me when the courts allow this? Spewww your anger elsewhere. I guess a true dose of reality doesn't fly here on this forum.

Why do I use my son to hurt my EX?? BECAUSE it bothers him and I to be honest (nothing new) I want my son to have nothing to do with his father. There are more of us out there than you think. I just had no idea everyone tried to play like it didn't exist.... my mistake!