Abusing the system!

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I'm beginning to feel sorry for the girlfriend.

 

[THE1involved]

Ok for 1 nobody is being sued like the post #2 has stated. What happens is you get served, you have a temporary restraining order, 2 weeks from the date filed there is a hearing for both parties to show up and not both always do then a perm restraining order is placed in effect for 1 year depending on the circumstances and if the judge deems it necessary. Nobody testifies or is subpoenaed like some of the other posts have said to wait for. It is a one time quick like hearing.

 

[THE1involved]

If I want evidence that it is her that is harassing me do I need to have all my evidence put through the court system prior to the date of this hearing? ie Phone records, police reports, prior restraining order, order of prior to be dismissed etc. Last time the the restraining order was placed I did show up but did not want to fight the order cause I wanted it so she would stay the f away from me. Then I was a sucker and stupid to take her back she had to go to the judge to have the R/O dropped. She told the judge that the problems were actually from her ex-husband, that it was him that was controlling and abusive and he was the one that pushed the issue for her to get a R/O on me.