Twinklex123
Junior Member
I broke up with an abusive ex in April. Found out I was pregnant a month after leaving him. I was so panicked I considered abortion but I realised that's not me that I was considering it out if fear for the baby's well being. He is very selfish and he has 2 kids from a previous marriage ages 3 and 6 and he would always talk badly about their mom and call her a whore and more to them and make them feel guilty for having a friendship with her boyfriend. We always argued about this he also would emotional mentally and verbally abuse me. He is not afraid to put his hands on me either. His oldest would come to me and say sorry his dad was so mean to me. That and more (lying, cheating, manipulating, cocaine and alcohol abuse that I didnt know about) are the reasons I left him. I love this baby I am carrying so much and I am terrified because he keeps threatening me that he is going to go for 50% custody and his family is very wealthy and his mom is just as horrible as he is. She sees nothing he does as incorrect. Now every day he sends me text messages I do not EVER reply. But he will love me and miss me one day and the next I'm a whore and a **** and he's taking this baby from me. I am terrified to the point that I am even considering moving out of state away from my family just so I can keep the baby safe and away from him. I do not know what to do. He got 50% custody of his 2 kids from his marriage because she wasn't able to prove alcohol or drug abuse or physical abuse. But him and I are not married never lived together or anything I just want to know what to do. I thought a out restraining order but idk what that will really do I've had to call the police because he has showed up at my house very late yelling and threatening me. I don't even know what to do please help.