What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? my state is MA, the young girl's state is CT
I am 24 years old from China, studying in MA for my Phd degree, the girl is also from China, she is almost 17 years old. now she is currently studying in a high school in CT, she live with the high school teacher's family. so that family has the responsibility to take care of her.
we knew each other in China, and kept in touch with each other by phone in USA. the girl's mother in China allows us to have relationship. we are not sexually involved.
now, the high school teacher finds out we are dating, she will call the police.
so are we illegal?
thanks
thanks for all you guys's answers, I think I need to add more details to you guys.
my girlfriend she study in a high school in CT, because she is minor, so the school requires she must have a guardian in USA. so the school policy is that the school will assign each international student a guardian. her guardian is the teacher in that high school. but this teacher is very mean! she treats my girls friend very bad! she do not even tell my girlfriend supper is ready.
This weekend, the teacher took her daughter outside for fun, they never offer to take my girlfriend outside just for fun. so my girlfriend has to stay at home. so she call me to call meet her and take her to CVS. I drive to her place, and wait outside the house. but the neighbor saw me. so when my girlfriend gets on my car, the neighbor calls the teacher. Then the teacher calls my girlfriend, asking who she is with. my girlfriend does not want to tell the teacher about me, because in China dating with an adult is legal. so at first, we do not think this is a very serious problem. but the teacher calls my girlfriend again, requiring her to be back home ASAP, and the teacher is threatening my girlfriend that she will call the police! so my girlfriend goes back home, and I leave.
when my girlfriend is back home, she says that she just goes out for a walk. but the teacher mentions the evidence from the neighbor. then the teacher says she will kick my girlfriend out of the high school, and they will call the police to catch me! the teacher tells this incident to the present of the high school, and she says she does not want my girlfriend to live in her house any more. so my girlfriend is living in another teacher's house. but this teacher is forcing my girlfriend to tell my phone number and other information, because they want to contact the police. my girlfriend is too worried about me to tell them anything about me.
a few hours ago, I contacted that teacher myself. I want to resolve this problem. but that teacher does not want to answer my call nor does she want to reply my text messages!
until now, nobody contacts me, and I can not contact my girlfriend, they are still forcing her to tell my information.
I really need you guys's help! I am doing nothing illegal, I get my girlfriend's mother permission to have relationship with her!
I am 24 years old from China, studying in MA for my Phd degree, the girl is also from China, she is almost 17 years old. now she is currently studying in a high school in CT, she live with the high school teacher's family. so that family has the responsibility to take care of her.
we knew each other in China, and kept in touch with each other by phone in USA. the girl's mother in China allows us to have relationship. we are not sexually involved.
now, the high school teacher finds out we are dating, she will call the police.
so are we illegal?
thanks
thanks for all you guys's answers, I think I need to add more details to you guys.
my girlfriend she study in a high school in CT, because she is minor, so the school requires she must have a guardian in USA. so the school policy is that the school will assign each international student a guardian. her guardian is the teacher in that high school. but this teacher is very mean! she treats my girls friend very bad! she do not even tell my girlfriend supper is ready.
This weekend, the teacher took her daughter outside for fun, they never offer to take my girlfriend outside just for fun. so my girlfriend has to stay at home. so she call me to call meet her and take her to CVS. I drive to her place, and wait outside the house. but the neighbor saw me. so when my girlfriend gets on my car, the neighbor calls the teacher. Then the teacher calls my girlfriend, asking who she is with. my girlfriend does not want to tell the teacher about me, because in China dating with an adult is legal. so at first, we do not think this is a very serious problem. but the teacher calls my girlfriend again, requiring her to be back home ASAP, and the teacher is threatening my girlfriend that she will call the police! so my girlfriend goes back home, and I leave.
when my girlfriend is back home, she says that she just goes out for a walk. but the teacher mentions the evidence from the neighbor. then the teacher says she will kick my girlfriend out of the high school, and they will call the police to catch me! the teacher tells this incident to the present of the high school, and she says she does not want my girlfriend to live in her house any more. so my girlfriend is living in another teacher's house. but this teacher is forcing my girlfriend to tell my phone number and other information, because they want to contact the police. my girlfriend is too worried about me to tell them anything about me.
a few hours ago, I contacted that teacher myself. I want to resolve this problem. but that teacher does not want to answer my call nor does she want to reply my text messages!
until now, nobody contacts me, and I can not contact my girlfriend, they are still forcing her to tell my information.
I really need you guys's help! I am doing nothing illegal, I get my girlfriend's mother permission to have relationship with her!
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