Where is housing at in there? unemployment runs out, medicaid has strict stipulations that most do not qualify for it and the other one is for old people. Food banks are underfunded at best. Maybe I misspoke, the safety nets in the nation are EXTREMELY weak and most people fall right through them. thats just the way it is, you quote a few weak programs does not change reality.No safety net? Unemployment, medicaid, food stamps, welfare, food banks...there are TONS of safety nets!
Thats a good post, I think alot of ncp males are treated extemely unfairly alot of times to the point it drives them to homelessness or fear of persecution. You cant deny that because thats the way it is.
none of that matters all that matters is that you can support yourself, anything that infringes upon you being able to support yourself is a problem. If you cant work an honest days work and be able to feed clothe and shelter yourself without someone trying to throw you out on the street or extort your money then thats an issue. What motivation does one even have to live at that point, refugee status is a last ditch effort to regain some normalcy in your own life, maybe you would end up being killed in teh process but its better than freezing to death in the streets. If support orders were not gigantic amounts of money and unemployment did not last more than a year it would not be an issue, its all about the extent of the issue and how it impacts your quality of life, the pricipals are irrelavant if you can no longer maintian a decent quality of life.Balderdash. Neither gender gets treated any better or worse than the other.
I just thought it was interesting that you expect other people to shell out for you, but you're willing to go so far as to leave the country and give up your citizenship rather than pay support for your own children.
I think we have a new winner for the "entitlement mentality" sweepstakes.
A childs well being isent that expensive, anything past a few hundred bucks basicly becomes spousal support and extortion. There is no reason that the child cant be provided for and the ncp can still maintain a life. Thats the difference between valid responsiblity and manipulative wickedness. Lots of families support there kid on minimum wage and the kid does just fine, it boils down to the cp wanting to extort a life that she did not earn just because she poped out a kid.I find it acceptable that the state places your children's well being above your own. YOU should do that too.
Sorry to break it to you but there are ncp who are paying thousands a month as part of there regular cs, no arrerage etc. So that is flagrant deception. My GF's mom works for CS and sees the nitty gritty of the numbers. Its wickedness plain and simple.If the parent is having that much taken, it's because he or she avoided responsibility for years and is thousands in arrears.